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Hello community,
I rescued Penny when she was 2 weeks old, and we have a very deep bond. She just turned 1 year old, and for a while now (quite a few months) she won't cuddle, she won't go in my lap or even on my bed if I am on it. She follows me around everywhere, to the bathroom, up and down the stairs, but she absolutely won't cuddle with me. As a kitten she was cuddly but at about 4 months old she got less and less cuddly and now I'm here, where not only is she anti-cuddly, but if I try to pet her she automatically bites me, hard! It's not a petting induced aggression, because she is already aggressive before I can even pet her. She gets so angry and her ears go back and she growls and draws blood if I try to pet her more than a quick scratch on her head. She lays on her back and trills like she wants a belly rub but when I go to pet her she grabs my hand and chomps down. She won't let me pick her up or pet her, but she follows me around all day long?! I attempt to hold her in my lap, even when she's tired and ready to nap, and she won't sit in my lap and ends up swatting me in the face and usually bites my nose. I don't understand, and I am sad because I haven't held my kitty in my lap in months :'( she's never slept on my bed, and for about 7 months I haven't been able to just cuddle with her or pet her. I'm at a loss and I'm finally reaching out for help because everyone keeps telling me how mean my cat is and no one likes her, not even cat-people... Does anybody have any idea why she could be acting this way?
I rescued Penny when she was 2 weeks old, and we have a very deep bond. She just turned 1 year old, and for a while now (quite a few months) she won't cuddle, she won't go in my lap or even on my bed if I am on it. She follows me around everywhere, to the bathroom, up and down the stairs, but she absolutely won't cuddle with me. As a kitten she was cuddly but at about 4 months old she got less and less cuddly and now I'm here, where not only is she anti-cuddly, but if I try to pet her she automatically bites me, hard! It's not a petting induced aggression, because she is already aggressive before I can even pet her. She gets so angry and her ears go back and she growls and draws blood if I try to pet her more than a quick scratch on her head. She lays on her back and trills like she wants a belly rub but when I go to pet her she grabs my hand and chomps down. She won't let me pick her up or pet her, but she follows me around all day long?! I attempt to hold her in my lap, even when she's tired and ready to nap, and she won't sit in my lap and ends up swatting me in the face and usually bites my nose. I don't understand, and I am sad because I haven't held my kitty in my lap in months :'( she's never slept on my bed, and for about 7 months I haven't been able to just cuddle with her or pet her. I'm at a loss and I'm finally reaching out for help because everyone keeps telling me how mean my cat is and no one likes her, not even cat-people... Does anybody have any idea why she could be acting this way?