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Hello,
We have two cats in the house, and they get along GREAT. Both cats got along fine with me, until one day I picked up the female by the scruff the wrong way, and she urinated AND pooped all over herself, and remained in her waste in a curled up ball frightened. We brought her to the vet and the checkup showed no signs of injury at all. Well from then on, she has been extremely frightened of me. She will run to her safe spots whenever I enter a room, she will only approach me for food (which she does when she's hungry, and she meows politely for it). If I stare at her for any length of time when she's frightened, she will urinate immediately on the spot. If i come across her in the hallway she will stop, curl up frightened, and urinate if I make any movement or eye contact. One day she came to me for wet food, I fed her and she started eating. I came back in the kitchen to check up and clean up the plates, and we made eye contact and she urinated all over. She pretty much fear urinates daily and it's getting out of hand. My gf and I don't want to relocate her. Our male cat is fine with me, he sleeps on my lap, loves everyone and everything. The female cat is 100% trusting and loves my girlfriend.
Background on the female: extremely feral as a kitten when we adopted her. she was at least 8-12 weeks with little human interaction.
We've tried CBDs for the stress/anxiety, feliway plugs (they help somewhat). We are trying to avoid prescription drugs at all costs, but the signs might be pointing to possible ptsd from the event, which has only gotten worse. She use's the two litter boxes in the house regularly, even the one in my office when I'm there.
We are at a complete loss and just want her to live the great life she deserves.
We have two cats in the house, and they get along GREAT. Both cats got along fine with me, until one day I picked up the female by the scruff the wrong way, and she urinated AND pooped all over herself, and remained in her waste in a curled up ball frightened. We brought her to the vet and the checkup showed no signs of injury at all. Well from then on, she has been extremely frightened of me. She will run to her safe spots whenever I enter a room, she will only approach me for food (which she does when she's hungry, and she meows politely for it). If I stare at her for any length of time when she's frightened, she will urinate immediately on the spot. If i come across her in the hallway she will stop, curl up frightened, and urinate if I make any movement or eye contact. One day she came to me for wet food, I fed her and she started eating. I came back in the kitchen to check up and clean up the plates, and we made eye contact and she urinated all over. She pretty much fear urinates daily and it's getting out of hand. My gf and I don't want to relocate her. Our male cat is fine with me, he sleeps on my lap, loves everyone and everything. The female cat is 100% trusting and loves my girlfriend.
Background on the female: extremely feral as a kitten when we adopted her. she was at least 8-12 weeks with little human interaction.
We've tried CBDs for the stress/anxiety, feliway plugs (they help somewhat). We are trying to avoid prescription drugs at all costs, but the signs might be pointing to possible ptsd from the event, which has only gotten worse. She use's the two litter boxes in the house regularly, even the one in my office when I'm there.
We are at a complete loss and just want her to live the great life she deserves.