Recent Content by meelasmom

Your story brought tears to my eyes and I haven't even gone to page 2, yet. You did everything right IMHO. WE often forget how limited we are with fixing things, including the health of a cat. I am still grieving Abby because it still doesn't seem real. I look out where I buried her and keep...

You were a good mom to your cat and she knew it! They all know who loves them the most.

Hi Jan. I am so sorry about what you went through. None of this is ever fair! Your story does sound similar to mine. I first noticed Abby wasn't feeling well on a Friday late after noon and by Monday, I was putting her down. I still can't talk about it without crying. I still blame myself...

Your words mean so much to me. Thank you so much. She will be forever in my heart. I did manage to find a quote that I really like and others are free to use it too. "Grief is love with no place to go". That is exactly how I feel right now. I'm still a mess, but not as bad, I guess. It's...

Thank you so much for your kind words. I know I can't change what has happened, but I want to be diligent if it's something that I can control. I want to do better, if I need to. I do feel like I gave her a good life and she knew, she really knew just how much I loved her. She was the queen...

Thank you so much Di & Bob. You and the people here were so good to me when I struggled with losing Meela. I still carry that guilt and have so much regret. I know it was the right thing for Abby, but you are right, I have so many questions on why and how it happened and where is my...

Thank you so much!

Thank you SO MUCH for kind words. They meant so much to me and I truly appreciate them. I feel some guilt because I feel like I missed it somehow. She was my best friend. I know she's not suffering any more and I believe she is with the ones we have lost. This just really sucks right now...

Here is my sweet Abby

Thanks Mia6.

Hi everyone. I haven't been back in a while. I lost my Meela 6 years ago and that pain and regret is still there. I don't think it really ever goes away. Abby was also Meela's mom. During Covid, I lost my Big Black Buddy cat and that was pretty traumatic. He was hit by a car, but I didn't...

Thank you so much Mamanyt1953. I really appreciate your kind words. It's been rough and I'm getting through it...slowly

Thank you all for your kind words that I really appreciate. I have learned a few more things about Buddy now that I didn't know. He was speculated to be from another street down the road. There was a large group of black cats that ran the streets. Buddy was probably one of the most...

I do imagine that...the hardest part is not seeing me with him. I am still struggling, but not as dire as I was. Thank you for your words.

I'm not letting it happen again. The remaining cats will never go outside. I love them all way too much to let them put themselves in jeopardy. The catio is a great idea!