My male cat is about to be 11 months old. We just got him neutered yesterday and it was awful. He hated the car ride he meowed something like out of a horror movie and he also defecated on himself to and from the vet. Now he has this cone on and he seems terrified. He won’t get up to use the bathroom he won’t drink (so I’m giving water with a medicine syringe) he keeps freaking out and will dart across the house. He even ran about 4 feet up my wall yesterday. He won’t stop trying to pull it off and to top it off now his eyes both look like they have pink eye. He’s having a hard time. This cone is traumatizing him n I can see it. What can I do for my poor baby. Our other little 14 week old is completely fine. He’s been trying to play n run around wearing his cone like it’s a new outfit. But my other cat is non stop meow howling. Please any suggestions