I have a male friend who is 21, more mature for his age and intelligent. When I first met him everything was new and now that I have known him for over 3 months I am starting to see a few things I don't like.
A lot of the time when I express how I feel, do things, or believe something he has to counter with a response in which he "needs to prove" his point. He will write multiple paragraphs "proving" his point so as to make it sound as if his answers are the only correct ones, never agreeing with mine or being open to them at all. Everyone does have a right to their own beliefs, but I feel like he doesn't respect mine at all.
He is very hard to talk to because he always responds in theories (life is not only about theories, but also about experiences, and feelings too) and to be honest he has annoyed me a few times because he will get to the point where if I don't agree with his view or acknowledge that he is correct, he will keep pushing until I either tell him he has pushed to far and ignore him, or tell him that the discussion is finished and I no longer care. He keeps wanting to bring these arguments back up and that to me is a very bad sign because he can't let things go and it has to be his view, or none at all.
I do not like it when someone comes across as wanting to be superior to another, for I am not inferior and would like to be treated as an equal. Over the past few emails he has started to bore me because it is always about his theories, or proving that he is correct and I realized that the more I get to know him, the more I could never be with him.
We are only friends, even though I know he feels more, however, I do not. If anything he has turned me completely off and I am at a loss of what to do.
Would you stay friends with someone like this?
A lot of the time when I express how I feel, do things, or believe something he has to counter with a response in which he "needs to prove" his point. He will write multiple paragraphs "proving" his point so as to make it sound as if his answers are the only correct ones, never agreeing with mine or being open to them at all. Everyone does have a right to their own beliefs, but I feel like he doesn't respect mine at all.
He is very hard to talk to because he always responds in theories (life is not only about theories, but also about experiences, and feelings too) and to be honest he has annoyed me a few times because he will get to the point where if I don't agree with his view or acknowledge that he is correct, he will keep pushing until I either tell him he has pushed to far and ignore him, or tell him that the discussion is finished and I no longer care. He keeps wanting to bring these arguments back up and that to me is a very bad sign because he can't let things go and it has to be his view, or none at all.
I do not like it when someone comes across as wanting to be superior to another, for I am not inferior and would like to be treated as an equal. Over the past few emails he has started to bore me because it is always about his theories, or proving that he is correct and I realized that the more I get to know him, the more I could never be with him.
We are only friends, even though I know he feels more, however, I do not. If anything he has turned me completely off and I am at a loss of what to do.
Would you stay friends with someone like this?