i nearly spat my coffee all over my monitor at that!Originally Posted by Rosiemac
And if i need a cuddle i have plenty male friends who would give me one
i nearly spat my coffee all over my monitor at that!Originally Posted by Rosiemac
And if i need a cuddle i have plenty male friends who would give me one
Yes but that's all i want from themOriginally Posted by tab
i nearly spat my coffee all over my monitor at that!
Same here! I don't know where I would be without my husband!Originally Posted by Bella713
I'd rather be right where I am now, married and in love
Originally Posted by Rosiemac
And if i need a cuddle i have plenty male friends who would give me one
Originally Posted by tab
i nearly spat my coffee all over my monitor at that!
Originally Posted by Natalie_ca
I picked "doesn't matter" because it really doesn't.
I've been happy in a relationship and I've been miserable in them too. However, as a "single", I've mostly been happy and certainly never lonely because I actually enjoy solitude, my own company and not having to worry about "compromise".
If the right guy comes along I'm open to a relationship, but I'm certainly not going to pine away wishing for one because I don't need a man in my life in order to be happy and fulfilled.
The same thing can be said about the male species -- yes??Originally Posted by kaete
If it comes down to being single or being in a crummy relationship, I'll always pick single. Believe me... there are some crazy broads out there
I imagine soOriginally Posted by KittKatt
The same thing can be said about the male species -- yes??
My s/o is like that, too. Drives me nuts!Originally Posted by AddieBee
He also defers to me too much... always pushing decisions off onto me ... this makes me crazy!
I have told him sometimes it would be nice if HE planned a night out or something. So sometimes I think it's just laziness on his part. Why should he when I step in. He told me, "well, you're so good at it!"Sometimes I feel like i'm the freakin' cruise director. That doesn't mean I want to do it all the time and make all of the decisions and do all of the planning!!!!!! Men can be sooooo clueless!
I can't say that my s/o is that bad. He usually can make that decision on his own.I remember saying to him one time, half-jokingly, so are you getting me anything for Valentines Day? His response: I just got you something for Christmas!! Aaarrrgggghhhhh!!!! Keep in mind, I take VERY good care of him! Another time when he did ask me what I might like and I said flowers, he said why, they just die! ???? True... but that's not the point! This summer when i bought a bunch of peonies at the farmers market and was so thrilled with them, he said to me, I didn't know you liked cut flowers?
To me, it really is small wonder that surveys have shown the happiest and healthiest people are single women and married men. Duh!