My husband and I have a friend we'll call Robert. He and my husband have been friends for 25 years, and I've known Robert and considered him a close friend for the past 17 years.
Robert and my husband are in the same field, and they work together sometimes professionally. Robert lives in a large city and his wife left him about five months ago - she found someone else. Robert was devastated but he's trying to put his life back together.
My husband stays with Robert when he is in town. Here's the problem:
When Robert was married, he and his wife and my husband would go would go out for dinner and/or a pub when my husband was there. Usually, some friends of the wife would meet them for drinks or whatever. I didn't have a problem with that and I trust my husband.
My husband just got back from a trip where he spent one night at Robert's. They met friends for dinner then went to the pub. My problem now is that everybody is single, except for my husband. Robert has lots of single women friends (he's quite the catch). This time, Robert ended up having a friend stay the night.
This bothers me now, when it didn't before. I still trust my husband; that hasn't changed. But now I have a problem with it!
How you do feel? Please advise!
Robert and my husband are in the same field, and they work together sometimes professionally. Robert lives in a large city and his wife left him about five months ago - she found someone else. Robert was devastated but he's trying to put his life back together.
My husband stays with Robert when he is in town. Here's the problem:
When Robert was married, he and his wife and my husband would go would go out for dinner and/or a pub when my husband was there. Usually, some friends of the wife would meet them for drinks or whatever. I didn't have a problem with that and I trust my husband.
My husband just got back from a trip where he spent one night at Robert's. They met friends for dinner then went to the pub. My problem now is that everybody is single, except for my husband. Robert has lots of single women friends (he's quite the catch). This time, Robert ended up having a friend stay the night.
This bothers me now, when it didn't before. I still trust my husband; that hasn't changed. But now I have a problem with it!
How you do feel? Please advise!