Several months ago, I posted about my weird little antisocial kitty, Winn. I got her just about a year ago from a family. The minute she met my dogs, she flipped. She was like a feral cat. I could pick her up at any time for some odd reason, but she didn't like it and never wanted any affection. I gave her a safe zone, dog free. After a little while she got over her fear of them, then got aggressive with them and me. Random attacks, that sorta thing.
Then I started making her allow me to pet her before I fed her. It didn't take too long before she started enjoying it, and then one day, out of the blue, I got a head butt :-). About that time, the aggression stopped. Now, she's extremely friendly at mealtimes. And just now, as I'm laying in bed computing, she came up to me, seeking affection.
It only took a year. Now maybe some day I'll hear her purr.
Then I started making her allow me to pet her before I fed her. It didn't take too long before she started enjoying it, and then one day, out of the blue, I got a head butt :-). About that time, the aggression stopped. Now, she's extremely friendly at mealtimes. And just now, as I'm laying in bed computing, she came up to me, seeking affection.
It only took a year. Now maybe some day I'll hear her purr.