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I really need to rant and any encouragement and advise is appreciated.
Currently I have Jimmy in isolation. We are reintroducing the cats, like they have never known each other. It's difficult because he is meowing and scratching at the door. (It breaks my heart!)
When we first adopted them in January, both cats got a long fine. Well, so we thought. Now these cats are NOT friends. They tolerate each other. Why the shelter insisted that these cats want to stay together is beyond me.
So basically Jimmy started playing rough with Duchess. He would suddenly pounce and chase, she would growl and hiss and run away, and if Jimmy was lucky enough he would bite her rump and/or tail and pull fur out. This behaviour started getting worse. He has even tried to mount her. So it's like he has a mixture of rough play/sexual aggression/territorial aggression.
Most of the time they tolerate each other, they can be in the same room with no conflict. But the sudden "attacks" are getting worse and more frequent.
Jimmy is male 7, Duchess is female 5. They are not related.
I have read so many articles on what to do. NOTHING so far has worked.
I have more than one litter tray, in different locations.
I have plenty of feeding stations.
I feed them only wet food at meal times.
I play with them both, separately and together and reward them with treats.
I reward them with treats when they are nice together.
I play even more with Jimmy to get him tired.
I have feliway diffusers (note plural! Biggest waste of money)
I have felifriend spray (another waste of money)
Both cats are neutered and spayed.
I have high spaces and low spaces in ALL rooms and plenty of them so they don't have to share.
Jimmy now wears a collar with a bell on, so Duchess knows where he is.
I have taken them both to the vet. They are fine.
I have done timeout with Jimmy when he displays bad behaviour towards her.
I have tried all kinds of distractions, toys, laser lights, treats, even physically standing between them, clapping my hands, throwing a pillow, hissing, stomping my feet, a stern NO, water to make him stop. He basically ignores me now.
I feed him first.
I greet him first.
I pet him first.
I am at my wits end. I just want them to stop fighting.
Jimmy is currently in the spare room. I have to feed both cats at either side of the closed door. Then tomorrow Duchess will be confined to the room.
I really didn't want to do this, Jimmy was crying most of the night and I couldn't sleep. But it's my last resort. *sigh*
Currently I have Jimmy in isolation. We are reintroducing the cats, like they have never known each other. It's difficult because he is meowing and scratching at the door. (It breaks my heart!)
When we first adopted them in January, both cats got a long fine. Well, so we thought. Now these cats are NOT friends. They tolerate each other. Why the shelter insisted that these cats want to stay together is beyond me.
So basically Jimmy started playing rough with Duchess. He would suddenly pounce and chase, she would growl and hiss and run away, and if Jimmy was lucky enough he would bite her rump and/or tail and pull fur out. This behaviour started getting worse. He has even tried to mount her. So it's like he has a mixture of rough play/sexual aggression/territorial aggression.
Most of the time they tolerate each other, they can be in the same room with no conflict. But the sudden "attacks" are getting worse and more frequent.
Jimmy is male 7, Duchess is female 5. They are not related.
I have read so many articles on what to do. NOTHING so far has worked.
I have more than one litter tray, in different locations.
I have plenty of feeding stations.
I feed them only wet food at meal times.
I play with them both, separately and together and reward them with treats.
I reward them with treats when they are nice together.
I play even more with Jimmy to get him tired.
I have feliway diffusers (note plural! Biggest waste of money)
I have felifriend spray (another waste of money)
Both cats are neutered and spayed.
I have high spaces and low spaces in ALL rooms and plenty of them so they don't have to share.
Jimmy now wears a collar with a bell on, so Duchess knows where he is.
I have taken them both to the vet. They are fine.
I have done timeout with Jimmy when he displays bad behaviour towards her.
I have tried all kinds of distractions, toys, laser lights, treats, even physically standing between them, clapping my hands, throwing a pillow, hissing, stomping my feet, a stern NO, water to make him stop. He basically ignores me now.
I feed him first.
I greet him first.
I pet him first.
I am at my wits end. I just want them to stop fighting.
Jimmy is currently in the spare room. I have to feed both cats at either side of the closed door. Then tomorrow Duchess will be confined to the room.
I really didn't want to do this, Jimmy was crying most of the night and I couldn't sleep. But it's my last resort. *sigh*