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Not sure if this is the best forum for this, but here goes.
My friend has a lot of cats, and some of them have had kittens who need a home. I’m torn between two kittens. Unfortunately I can only adopt one (three cats in a one bedroom will be pushing it, but given this kitten's current situation it'll still be an improvement). There's a boy and a girl, but I'm not sure which one is right for me. Both were very shy and skittish at first but are starting to come around; however, it's a slow process. I'm hopeful that they will socialize easier once in my home.
The only boy is sleepier than the others. I kinda wanted a boy and a lazy cat. He'll let me pet him when he's sleepy too, and he's not skittish around hands like the other one. But he's also more sickly than the others; seems to have a persistent URI.
The girl has a bunch of weird white hairs but is a little bigger and glossier than the boy; I think she might be a bit older (they may not be from the same litter; bunch of females gave birth within a few weeks of each other). She's curious about me and generally gets closer to me than she does to most other people. But she really shies away from hands. I did manage to get her to rub her face on my hand once tonight, but she then followed it up with a chomp (hand must have smelled like the chicken I had been feeding them). That might have been the only time I've seen her not shy away from my hand.
So... I'm really torn. I feel like behaviorally the boy is the safer bet since he at least tolerates petting, but might be a little riskier health-wise. Also, the girl really does seem to be less wary of me than she is of many others, but she's just so averse to being touched, and I'm not sure if that can be socialized out of her. I have no problem with giving a cat space, but I would be sad if my cat didn't like to be petted at all. If it matters, I already have two young adult females who are quite friendly and playful with each other, so I do think that they will be willing to befriend the kitten eventually.
I'll probably make my final decision this Saturday or Friday. Agghh, which kitten!
My friend has a lot of cats, and some of them have had kittens who need a home. I’m torn between two kittens. Unfortunately I can only adopt one (three cats in a one bedroom will be pushing it, but given this kitten's current situation it'll still be an improvement). There's a boy and a girl, but I'm not sure which one is right for me. Both were very shy and skittish at first but are starting to come around; however, it's a slow process. I'm hopeful that they will socialize easier once in my home.
The only boy is sleepier than the others. I kinda wanted a boy and a lazy cat. He'll let me pet him when he's sleepy too, and he's not skittish around hands like the other one. But he's also more sickly than the others; seems to have a persistent URI.
The girl has a bunch of weird white hairs but is a little bigger and glossier than the boy; I think she might be a bit older (they may not be from the same litter; bunch of females gave birth within a few weeks of each other). She's curious about me and generally gets closer to me than she does to most other people. But she really shies away from hands. I did manage to get her to rub her face on my hand once tonight, but she then followed it up with a chomp (hand must have smelled like the chicken I had been feeding them). That might have been the only time I've seen her not shy away from my hand.
So... I'm really torn. I feel like behaviorally the boy is the safer bet since he at least tolerates petting, but might be a little riskier health-wise. Also, the girl really does seem to be less wary of me than she is of many others, but she's just so averse to being touched, and I'm not sure if that can be socialized out of her. I have no problem with giving a cat space, but I would be sad if my cat didn't like to be petted at all. If it matters, I already have two young adult females who are quite friendly and playful with each other, so I do think that they will be willing to befriend the kitten eventually.
I'll probably make my final decision this Saturday or Friday. Agghh, which kitten!