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I wasn't sure where to put this. Obv Violet is no longer a stray, but we adopted her at 2yrs 4 weeks old. The first adult we've adopted. She was transferred from one shelter to our local for 4 weeks, so we don't know if she was in a bad condition before coming down here (I could never imagine that long fur being matted and horrific). I suppose what I want to know is, if you have zero information of their life before being taken in, how do you deal with trust or behavioral issues? We love her to pieces, and I feel like after 5 months she has settled in. She has a few quirks which I feel are to do with her life before the shelter/s. (as a side note when we saw her they said she didn't come out of her cage or interact with anyone that entire month..she was overlooked for her quietness!) I don't think it is a huge enough worry to put into the behavioral section of the forum..idk. Do any of you ever wonder/worry that their personality had been shaped by past abuse/mistreatment and wish you could know what their life was before? We love Violet as she is, but sometimes I feel like if I knew what she had experienced that we could 100% get why she is the way that she is and make her know she has nothing to worry about. To know how to react to or treat certain personality traits in the way that is best for her, not us. Sorry this sounds all rambly. It just makes me sad to think she may have been dumped or hurt or lost and left to fend for herself.