hello so this is a question regarding my 14, almost 15 year old cat. i ask for no judgment, but advice/opinions coming from a place of understanding.
my mother told me i should consider euthanizing my cat, whose been with me my entire life since i was 7. last year i tried moving her in with me and my boyfriend but it just did not workout. shes old, and ny boyfriends cats are young. i tried reintroducing them slowly for about a month but they still did not like her. she also is very bad with babies and if she hears them cry she will try to either attack them or the closest adult. so i asked my brother to take her in.
my brother is not in a good place at all (mentally) and i dont think hes really fit to take care of her anymore. id love to take her back but i dont know if i can do it and none of this is fair to her. we're moving in a few days, which will be very stressful for my bfs 3 cats and if i try to get her into the new place (which isnt much bigger) it would be stressful for them all, and myself too.
she has eosinophilic granuloma, blocked anal gland issues, and some pododermatitis which im not sure why. i deal with all these issues with our vet but the eosinophilic granuloma isnt getting better, and shes on her second round of steroids. she just, doesnt seem happy anymore and i feel awful and guilty that i cannot provide her happiness.
im left with 2 options here, i cant let her stay with my brother.. do i try to make it work at the new place with the other cats and my son? or lay her to rest.. i feel really awful about these choices and i dont know whats best honestly. i feel like id feel guilt about putting her to sleep so i guess i just want another opinion? if i do try and take her back im scared of her around my son, and id have to keep her locked away at all times..
im sorry for ranting i dont know what to do..
my mother told me i should consider euthanizing my cat, whose been with me my entire life since i was 7. last year i tried moving her in with me and my boyfriend but it just did not workout. shes old, and ny boyfriends cats are young. i tried reintroducing them slowly for about a month but they still did not like her. she also is very bad with babies and if she hears them cry she will try to either attack them or the closest adult. so i asked my brother to take her in.
my brother is not in a good place at all (mentally) and i dont think hes really fit to take care of her anymore. id love to take her back but i dont know if i can do it and none of this is fair to her. we're moving in a few days, which will be very stressful for my bfs 3 cats and if i try to get her into the new place (which isnt much bigger) it would be stressful for them all, and myself too.
she has eosinophilic granuloma, blocked anal gland issues, and some pododermatitis which im not sure why. i deal with all these issues with our vet but the eosinophilic granuloma isnt getting better, and shes on her second round of steroids. she just, doesnt seem happy anymore and i feel awful and guilty that i cannot provide her happiness.
im left with 2 options here, i cant let her stay with my brother.. do i try to make it work at the new place with the other cats and my son? or lay her to rest.. i feel really awful about these choices and i dont know whats best honestly. i feel like id feel guilt about putting her to sleep so i guess i just want another opinion? if i do try and take her back im scared of her around my son, and id have to keep her locked away at all times..
im sorry for ranting i dont know what to do..