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The school the my daughter Sam goes to has a big sign in the front entrance that has the Code of Behavior. #1 is to not harass or bully anyone. When you take your concerns to the School Resource Officer and Administrator for my daughters class they talk to you in circles.
You point out that they say "No harassing behavior" but they don't support it.
Sam came home yesterday and she just looks beat.
We talked and she cried.
She said that everyday she pulls into the school she feels so much dread
becuz she knows that when she gets to her first class the girls will be pointing at her and talking trash about her.
She said that every once in a while a young girl will come to her and tell her that she is a role model to them. They tell her that she is so strong and to be able to come to school and stand tall everyday makes them feel stronger.
Sam told me that when that happens she feels better and knows she will be okay.
The part of this that is really sucky is that these girls that are doing this use to be her so called "good friend"
One example: Sam and Jane (fake friend name) made plans to go to VA Tech to check out the college over the weekend. The weather got bad and the plans were cancelled but Jane asked if Sam could spend the weekend at her house anyway. I said sure. The girls had a blast. So I thought. Monday at school Jane calls Sam out and starts screaming at her becuz Jane got in trouble for getting home 10 minutes late on Saturday nite after the girls had gone out and met some friends. Sam said that they didn't get back to Janes until 10 after 11 but Jane's parents didn't say anything at the time. After Jane did this she then started spreading tons of rumors. Uggggggggg
I am soooo confused I know Sam is extremely confused as well.
Thank you again for sharing your stories. When Sam and I were talking last nite I shared some of your situations and it seemed to help her. So thank you again.
You point out that they say "No harassing behavior" but they don't support it.
Sam came home yesterday and she just looks beat.
She said that every once in a while a young girl will come to her and tell her that she is a role model to them. They tell her that she is so strong and to be able to come to school and stand tall everyday makes them feel stronger.
The part of this that is really sucky is that these girls that are doing this use to be her so called "good friend"
Thank you again for sharing your stories. When Sam and I were talking last nite I shared some of your situations and it seemed to help her. So thank you again.