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okay, so i have three cats. all three are unaltered adults, and have thus far been unaltered because i've been spending more money on fosters and getting them healthy.
i found homes/rescues for all of my fosters and i don't plan on taking anymore in for a long time (like, years) just so i can focus more on mine and get myself in a more financially stable place.
today i sent in a money order to Humane Solutions for three $35 low cost spay/neuter vouchers which will be taken by a local vet i know.
however, i have a small dilemma.. princess is pregnant, i'm pretty sure. now i don't have any problems getting the kittens aborted, BUT...
.. i KNOW they belong to my other cat, fuzzybutt, because he's the only male she's been around for months now and she hasn't sneaked outside for months.
last year one of my fosters had one kitten by fuzzybutt and i was so thrilled, and he was so precious and looked just like his daddy and i loved him to pieces, but he didn't live very long.
basically, should i go ahead and abort the kittens, or take a chance on princess having a kitten that looks like him?
would it be selfish of me to want to let her have them just on the off chance one might look like him, when it's possible none will?
i found homes/rescues for all of my fosters and i don't plan on taking anymore in for a long time (like, years) just so i can focus more on mine and get myself in a more financially stable place.
today i sent in a money order to Humane Solutions for three $35 low cost spay/neuter vouchers which will be taken by a local vet i know.
however, i have a small dilemma.. princess is pregnant, i'm pretty sure. now i don't have any problems getting the kittens aborted, BUT...
.. i KNOW they belong to my other cat, fuzzybutt, because he's the only male she's been around for months now and she hasn't sneaked outside for months.
last year one of my fosters had one kitten by fuzzybutt and i was so thrilled, and he was so precious and looked just like his daddy and i loved him to pieces, but he didn't live very long.
basically, should i go ahead and abort the kittens, or take a chance on princess having a kitten that looks like him?
would it be selfish of me to want to let her have them just on the off chance one might look like him, when it's possible none will?