Here is the scenario: We are at the state liquor store this evening buying a bottle of liquor. Hubby and I walk up to the counter to purchase the bottle. Hubby carries the money so I let him do the buying. The guy at the counter says, "I need to see his ID first" - Indicating me. I am in my work clothes which consists of Charcoal grey cotton pants, a khaki short sleeved work shirt with my name (Melissa) on it, my long hair is in a ponytail, I have earrings (green flowers) in my ears, and a very pretty hemp necklace with purple beads and a large flower charm on it. So I shoot the guy an extremely icy look and dig out my ID while the gal working the other counter says, "She isn't a guy!" Well, the counter guy apologizes and I continue my icy glare without saying anything until we walk away from the counter.
Should I expect my hubby to jump in and "defend" me in these situations, or is that unreasonable?
Right now, I am rather PO'd and haven't said two words to Hubby since this happened (almost 2hrs ago).
BTW, this is an ongoing situation for me that has always really bothered me, and what I wear to work is not going to change, but the situation still bothers me.
Should I expect my hubby to jump in and "defend" me in these situations, or is that unreasonable?
Right now, I am rather PO'd and haven't said two words to Hubby since this happened (almost 2hrs ago).
BTW, this is an ongoing situation for me that has always really bothered me, and what I wear to work is not going to change, but the situation still bothers me.