I just want to complain about those people out there who tell me things like, "why don't you just get another cat", "you have allergies, why don't you get rid of your cat" and "well, you had him for 16 years and that's a long time". Just this morning, someone I consider a work friend told me I should "get rid of the cats" if my daughter has allergies. I hadn't told her about Lyndsey. I know all the reasons people do and say what they do and most of the time I can over look it. But sometimes, I just want to tell them to stop for a minute and think about what they are saying before they say it. You know what I mean?