My cat goes out at night and has had 2 different male suitors. What are cat relationships like? Do they fight over the same female cat? Do cats stay loyal to their mates? She brought home one guy and he never came back because I think he knew I did not approve. (I was not prepared). Then another tough kitty came yowling at my cat, scaring her. He rubbed against our door and meowed to be let in. So she hid indoors. Than started chirping and meowing at her and they became friends. They started meowing at each other. What does this mean? I preferred the first cat but he never came back. Does the female go with the stronger kitty?