Little dilemma here
When I was in college (back in 2002 til 2004-I went to a 2 yr college) and I was then with my ex boyfriend. Anyways... I met this guy, named Ryan. We hit it off right away and become well, close
We remained super close and best friends til we graduated in 2004. I have not seen him since then, but we talk regularly on the phone and online. He's my best guy friend and I love him to death. We promised eachother that if we both weren't married by time we were both 30, we'd get married to eachother
(He's gorgeous by the way
)
Here's the problem. Its been about 3 years since I've seen him last (he lives in SD for college and I live about 5 hours from him) John is a little leary about me talking to him and wanting to see him - because he knows that I cheated on my ex with Ryan and he's afraid that something would happen b/w me and him while we were together since we havent seen eachother for so long.
I've promised him up and down that I love him and that nothing would happen. He should trust me with that.
My bday is coming up in May, and we have a chance to see eachother for the 1st time in so many years on my birthday weekend. We both want to go to dinner and spend a weekend with old college friends (we'll all be in the same area) and I don't know how to tell John that I really want to go, without him feeling jeleous or thinking that I'm doing something that I shouldnt be
I've never cheated on John - EVER - and I feel guilty that I cheated on my ex all those years ago, but I was young and didn't know what I wanted.
What would you do? Would you go see your friend? Or not go because your SO might feel bad?
I'm torn
When I was in college (back in 2002 til 2004-I went to a 2 yr college) and I was then with my ex boyfriend. Anyways... I met this guy, named Ryan. We hit it off right away and become well, close
Here's the problem. Its been about 3 years since I've seen him last (he lives in SD for college and I live about 5 hours from him) John is a little leary about me talking to him and wanting to see him - because he knows that I cheated on my ex with Ryan and he's afraid that something would happen b/w me and him while we were together since we havent seen eachother for so long.
I've promised him up and down that I love him and that nothing would happen. He should trust me with that.
My bday is coming up in May, and we have a chance to see eachother for the 1st time in so many years on my birthday weekend. We both want to go to dinner and spend a weekend with old college friends (we'll all be in the same area) and I don't know how to tell John that I really want to go, without him feeling jeleous or thinking that I'm doing something that I shouldnt be
I've never cheated on John - EVER - and I feel guilty that I cheated on my ex all those years ago, but I was young and didn't know what I wanted.
What would you do? Would you go see your friend? Or not go because your SO might feel bad?
I'm torn