I was wondering what you do to show your spouse (not asked of course) you care and love them. I am talking a small massage at the end of a long day, a dreaded chore around the house, those types of things. And if they do something nice for you do you feel bad that they did it or does it make you love them more?
I made a promise to my husband before our daughter was born 9 mos ago, that as soon as she was born I would help him with his diet and help him lose weight. I have been getting up early and making his breakfast and lunch for the day. He has started a new job that requires him to leave the house before 5:30. Now I am getting up at 4:45 in the morning to make his breakfast and lunch before he leave and also to get ready for my day as well. I am not doing it to be a martyr or because "I have to", but because I want to and that was the promise I made. I think he is having trouble with it all because I don't get home from work unitl 7-7:15, and we barely have enough time to feed our daughter and put her to bed, before we have to go to bed ourselves. Does not leave much time for us. I wouldn't do it if I didn't want to or care, so why should he feel bad??
Anywone else do things like this for their spouse and do they feel bad too??
I made a promise to my husband before our daughter was born 9 mos ago, that as soon as she was born I would help him with his diet and help him lose weight. I have been getting up early and making his breakfast and lunch for the day. He has started a new job that requires him to leave the house before 5:30. Now I am getting up at 4:45 in the morning to make his breakfast and lunch before he leave and also to get ready for my day as well. I am not doing it to be a martyr or because "I have to", but because I want to and that was the promise I made. I think he is having trouble with it all because I don't get home from work unitl 7-7:15, and we barely have enough time to feed our daughter and put her to bed, before we have to go to bed ourselves. Does not leave much time for us. I wouldn't do it if I didn't want to or care, so why should he feel bad??
Anywone else do things like this for their spouse and do they feel bad too??