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Ugh. I am so so sorry. Your story is so similar to mine so my heart aches for you. When you said that he wasn’t urinating much on the pred fluid build up was my biggest and most immediate fear as that’s exactly what happened with my boy who passed in January… so I hate that we have this in common. I do believe strong meds like pred can exacerbate underlying issues, it did in my case, but it won’t cause something that’s not already brewing, so please don’t blame yourself. I know it’s hard, I did it too, but you did so much for that little guy and I can tell by the sweet little cat smile expression he’s making at you in those pictures that he adored you so much too. He looks like he was such a happy cat. Truly. You clearly gave him an amazing life full of love. Take care of yourself, the next few days and weeks are going to be rough but you will get through it and eventually the intense grief you’re feeling right now will be replaced by happy memories