After what seems like the worst month in my life, we had Max put to sleep today. The cancer under his tongue had gotten really bad. All the wonderful folks on this forum said I would know when the time was right, and I did. Yesterday I came home from church after a long discussion of the case with the retired vet who was going to put him to sleep and saw him all hunched up, which is a sure sign of misery in a cat. It was like he had already left us. He just stared straight ahead and kept wanting to hide. Also the blood was really coming out of his mouth from the lesions( he had oral cancer).
When I saw how the lesions had eaten away at his tongue, I wondered that he had done as well as he had for so long.
Thank you so much to those who have offered advice and comfort. It meant so much to me. When the pain of this has subsided somewhat, I hope to read some of the posts from others going through similar struggles and to offer advice as well as a kind of repayment.
I will write more later. I have really lost a wonderful friend today.
Ann D.
When I saw how the lesions had eaten away at his tongue, I wondered that he had done as well as he had for so long.
Thank you so much to those who have offered advice and comfort. It meant so much to me. When the pain of this has subsided somewhat, I hope to read some of the posts from others going through similar struggles and to offer advice as well as a kind of repayment.
I will write more later. I have really lost a wonderful friend today.
Ann D.