Hi, I'm new to this , but desparate for help, I have 2 11 month old toms(brothers) One of them has had diarreoh on and off for a couple of weeks now, have tried starving him( which is hard to do without starving the other!) What can i do? My husband hates the cats anyway and his answer is to 'get rid of them' I can't afford loads of vet bills. I think tonight was the last straw, when the cat 'messed' all over my daughter's bed!