Happy Saturday everyone,
We started with reintroduction's between our two boys, Mickey and Pesto last night after 5 successful baby gate experiences that followed two weeks of separation. At first things seemed to be going well, as they touched noses and Pesto (our resident cat), licked Mickey's head with no adverse reaction from Mickey. After a moment or two though, things seemed to shift as Mickey then just laid down on the spot and seemed to be increasingly resentful and angry at Pesto's presence with ears helicoptered out and tail twitching. Pesto seemed pretty oblivious to it all. Within about 10 minutes, Mickey did a short chase, (didn't really seem like play), and we put him in time out. We let him out and within about another 10 minutes he chased Pesto under the couch with Pesto growling and hissing. Today we started slower and smaller, staying in one room and closing off all exits. It seemed better, (no chasing), but Mickey seems still angry and resentful of Pesto's presence, and Pesto did seem more leery today and stayed about as far away from Mickey as he could, as Mickey kept doing the "stare" and had a hard time breaking the fixation, even with our help. It makes me so sad as Mickey at first was such a sweet, affectionate happy, tolerant boy, and now he seems angry or edgy most of the time in spite of all the work we have done to bring him back. He has had some bumps in the road that may explain some of this behavior, but is this also due to just normal adolescence, and will he eventually get back to the way he used to be, or is this how he just is? Maybe he should be in a one-and-only-cat household?
We started with reintroduction's between our two boys, Mickey and Pesto last night after 5 successful baby gate experiences that followed two weeks of separation. At first things seemed to be going well, as they touched noses and Pesto (our resident cat), licked Mickey's head with no adverse reaction from Mickey. After a moment or two though, things seemed to shift as Mickey then just laid down on the spot and seemed to be increasingly resentful and angry at Pesto's presence with ears helicoptered out and tail twitching. Pesto seemed pretty oblivious to it all. Within about 10 minutes, Mickey did a short chase, (didn't really seem like play), and we put him in time out. We let him out and within about another 10 minutes he chased Pesto under the couch with Pesto growling and hissing. Today we started slower and smaller, staying in one room and closing off all exits. It seemed better, (no chasing), but Mickey seems still angry and resentful of Pesto's presence, and Pesto did seem more leery today and stayed about as far away from Mickey as he could, as Mickey kept doing the "stare" and had a hard time breaking the fixation, even with our help. It makes me so sad as Mickey at first was such a sweet, affectionate happy, tolerant boy, and now he seems angry or edgy most of the time in spite of all the work we have done to bring him back. He has had some bumps in the road that may explain some of this behavior, but is this also due to just normal adolescence, and will he eventually get back to the way he used to be, or is this how he just is? Maybe he should be in a one-and-only-cat household?