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It’s been way too long since I posted on here and I wanted to give an update and also ask for more advice. We have a feral cat, Bob, that we took in last year. He’s been in a room trying to get him use to us. It’s been a slow process and I wanted to run this by everyone to see if we should take this next step or not.
Besides Bob, we have two girl cats, Tigger and Daisy. Bob’s room is nice and he has a cat perch that he looks out the window on and he also has a cat condo and a cat tree. There’s a gate on the doorway of the bedroom that he can see out of. The problem is Bob is still not comfortable with me or my husband. My husband a few months back was actually able to pet Bob and even brushed him but he hasn’t been able to do that since. At that time, Bob would be lying next to the cat tree so he wasn’t really feeling trapped. Now when we go in the room, he mostly goes in the condo so he’s more trapped and will hiss and growl if either me or my husband gets close to him. Well, sometimes just stepping in the room he’ll hiss and growl—but not every time. When I’m talking to Bob, he does calm down and I try doing the slow blinks at him and sometimes it looks like he does them back to me. Maybe I’m just nuts.
Bob plays with his toys overnight and he really loves these odd shape balls. I can hear him playing and talking at night. When he sees Tigger and Daisy, he gets so happy and is meowing and talking. But as soon as we come around, he runs and hides in the condo. Tigger has no problem with Bob at all. Daisy I’m not sure about yet—I think Bob is okay with Daisy but I think it’s Daisy I hear hiss when she sees Bob by the gate. That’s the one part I’m not sure on yet because I hear this overnight while I’m in bed. I want to be sure he’s okay with both girls before he can be out since he does have FIV. I do go in Bob’s room to visit him and sometimes Tigger will come in there with me—I need to push Daisy to be around Bob more.
So this is where I need advice—we are going to try and get Daisy in by Bob more this week and we thought maybe we should open the gate and let him come out of his room once we know he's okay with Daisy and Daisy is okay with him? He probably would only come out at night. We would try to block off hiding spots in our house—our house is small that we could try to do that but there are areas that will be impossible to completely block—like under the bed. I’m not sure what Bob would do if he’s out of the room—would he be destructive or suddenly go after the girl cats? Would this be a good way to get him use to us? I don’t want to make a mistake but I feel we need to do something to get him moving more and use to us. It’s too sad that he’s been in that room so long.
Any advice would really be appreciated. Thank you!
Besides Bob, we have two girl cats, Tigger and Daisy. Bob’s room is nice and he has a cat perch that he looks out the window on and he also has a cat condo and a cat tree. There’s a gate on the doorway of the bedroom that he can see out of. The problem is Bob is still not comfortable with me or my husband. My husband a few months back was actually able to pet Bob and even brushed him but he hasn’t been able to do that since. At that time, Bob would be lying next to the cat tree so he wasn’t really feeling trapped. Now when we go in the room, he mostly goes in the condo so he’s more trapped and will hiss and growl if either me or my husband gets close to him. Well, sometimes just stepping in the room he’ll hiss and growl—but not every time. When I’m talking to Bob, he does calm down and I try doing the slow blinks at him and sometimes it looks like he does them back to me. Maybe I’m just nuts.
Bob plays with his toys overnight and he really loves these odd shape balls. I can hear him playing and talking at night. When he sees Tigger and Daisy, he gets so happy and is meowing and talking. But as soon as we come around, he runs and hides in the condo. Tigger has no problem with Bob at all. Daisy I’m not sure about yet—I think Bob is okay with Daisy but I think it’s Daisy I hear hiss when she sees Bob by the gate. That’s the one part I’m not sure on yet because I hear this overnight while I’m in bed. I want to be sure he’s okay with both girls before he can be out since he does have FIV. I do go in Bob’s room to visit him and sometimes Tigger will come in there with me—I need to push Daisy to be around Bob more.
So this is where I need advice—we are going to try and get Daisy in by Bob more this week and we thought maybe we should open the gate and let him come out of his room once we know he's okay with Daisy and Daisy is okay with him? He probably would only come out at night. We would try to block off hiding spots in our house—our house is small that we could try to do that but there are areas that will be impossible to completely block—like under the bed. I’m not sure what Bob would do if he’s out of the room—would he be destructive or suddenly go after the girl cats? Would this be a good way to get him use to us? I don’t want to make a mistake but I feel we need to do something to get him moving more and use to us. It’s too sad that he’s been in that room so long.
Any advice would really be appreciated. Thank you!