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Hello,
New poster here! Please bear with me as I have a lot to share and would love any insight, advice, or comments in general.
My boyfriend and I decided it was time to get a kitten as we have been toying with the idea for a while. We ended up purchasing the cutest kitten in the world last weekend. The only problem is that we bought him on Kijiji (not sure how popular it is, but it is basically a buy/sell website).
The previous owner lied and told us he was 8 weeks old; going on 9. Though we realized it was still too young to be re-homed, she insisted we take him. We happily obliged and she delivered him to us. She claimed he had been properly weaned and had been eating kibble.
When we brought him home, he was exploring and willing to cuddle with us within the hour! He is a very confident and intelligent little kitten. We decided to name him Bean. It suited him perfectly.
The problems began the next day. He wasn't eating anything at all and wasn't interested in the kibble he was supposedly eating in his previous home. He also threw up twice and had diarrhea. We were so worried and rushed to the ER to have him checked out. We were told he was healthy, but needed to be dewormed as the worms in his little tummy were most likely the reason for his loss of appetite.
We were also told that our little Bean was likely 6-7 weeks old--not 9! This explained why he was so incredibly needy and incapable of eating or using the litter box on his own. We were told he would require A LOT of time and attention and couldn't be left alone for more than a couple hours a day. The ER bills have also been very expensive for us.
Since then, my boyfriend and I have realized that keeping Bean would not be an option. My boyfriend works full-time and I am a full-time university student. We know that we will not be able to give Bean the time and attention he so very much deserves. I have been missing class all week to rush to my boyfriend's place after he leaves for work. It breaks my heart to come home to him crying. I assume he feels very lost and lonely when no one is around. We of course leave lots of water, food, toys, and his litter box for him while we're gone.
Due to all these reasons, we have made the very difficult decision to find him a new home. I am heart broken because I want nothing more than to keep him, spend time with him, and give him all the cuddles in the world. However, we know that his next home will be able to provide him everything he needs.
I have been crying everyday since we have made the decision to give him away. I have grown so attached to Bean and I can tell he really loves us, too. I have been having a very hard time coming to terms with the fact that he will be gone today. I have grown so accustomed to caring for him and loving him. I can't bear the thought of not having him around, playing with him, cuddling him, etc. He knew exactly what to do in order to steal our hearts forever.
I would really appreciate any tips or advice on how to move past this and not grieve over his departure. I keep trying to tell myself that he'll be so much happier in his next home; as he'll have two playmates as well as an experienced cat owner who will be taking early retirement.
I'm simply heart broken as I write this. How have I gotten so attached to him already?! Will I ever get over this?
P.S: I've attached some images so you can see why I'm having such a hard time letting him go! Also, if anyone knows what breed he may be, please share!
New poster here! Please bear with me as I have a lot to share and would love any insight, advice, or comments in general.
My boyfriend and I decided it was time to get a kitten as we have been toying with the idea for a while. We ended up purchasing the cutest kitten in the world last weekend. The only problem is that we bought him on Kijiji (not sure how popular it is, but it is basically a buy/sell website).
The previous owner lied and told us he was 8 weeks old; going on 9. Though we realized it was still too young to be re-homed, she insisted we take him. We happily obliged and she delivered him to us. She claimed he had been properly weaned and had been eating kibble.
When we brought him home, he was exploring and willing to cuddle with us within the hour! He is a very confident and intelligent little kitten. We decided to name him Bean. It suited him perfectly.
The problems began the next day. He wasn't eating anything at all and wasn't interested in the kibble he was supposedly eating in his previous home. He also threw up twice and had diarrhea. We were so worried and rushed to the ER to have him checked out. We were told he was healthy, but needed to be dewormed as the worms in his little tummy were most likely the reason for his loss of appetite.
We were also told that our little Bean was likely 6-7 weeks old--not 9! This explained why he was so incredibly needy and incapable of eating or using the litter box on his own. We were told he would require A LOT of time and attention and couldn't be left alone for more than a couple hours a day. The ER bills have also been very expensive for us.
Since then, my boyfriend and I have realized that keeping Bean would not be an option. My boyfriend works full-time and I am a full-time university student. We know that we will not be able to give Bean the time and attention he so very much deserves. I have been missing class all week to rush to my boyfriend's place after he leaves for work. It breaks my heart to come home to him crying. I assume he feels very lost and lonely when no one is around. We of course leave lots of water, food, toys, and his litter box for him while we're gone.
Due to all these reasons, we have made the very difficult decision to find him a new home. I am heart broken because I want nothing more than to keep him, spend time with him, and give him all the cuddles in the world. However, we know that his next home will be able to provide him everything he needs.
I have been crying everyday since we have made the decision to give him away. I have grown so attached to Bean and I can tell he really loves us, too. I have been having a very hard time coming to terms with the fact that he will be gone today. I have grown so accustomed to caring for him and loving him. I can't bear the thought of not having him around, playing with him, cuddling him, etc. He knew exactly what to do in order to steal our hearts forever.
I would really appreciate any tips or advice on how to move past this and not grieve over his departure. I keep trying to tell myself that he'll be so much happier in his next home; as he'll have two playmates as well as an experienced cat owner who will be taking early retirement.
I'm simply heart broken as I write this. How have I gotten so attached to him already?! Will I ever get over this?
P.S: I've attached some images so you can see why I'm having such a hard time letting him go! Also, if anyone knows what breed he may be, please share!
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