I don't know if this is the correct forum for this question, but anywhoodles---
As some of you know, I lost Misty to a brain tumor last month. His little bro, Pyewackett, has not been his 100% self since then, he's not sick or anything he's just a little lonely for his buddy. I am thinking about adopting another cat/kitten to help fill the empty space where my Misty used to be but I'm unsure of when it's a good time to do so. Pye has always been surrounded by brothers & sisters all of his life, it's only recently he's been so alone. (his sisters had to move away with my old roommate)
I've increased his playtime and I try to give him extra attention but I know he's still wondering "where's everybody at?" He meows and looks all over the place for his playmates even now.
I know I could never ever replace Misty, he was unique and a dear member of the family for many many years. Do you think a month is too soon to adopt another kitty? Part of me thinks it would be better to adopt sooner rather than later, before Pyewackett gets used to being a loner. The other part of me feels a little guilty for bringing in a new cat so soon. I'm still grieving for Misty.
When is the right time to adopt? Should I wait a while longer or just do it? I had planned on visiting some shelters today to see if anyone there "picks" me. Any advice/suggestions would be helpful.
As some of you know, I lost Misty to a brain tumor last month. His little bro, Pyewackett, has not been his 100% self since then, he's not sick or anything he's just a little lonely for his buddy. I am thinking about adopting another cat/kitten to help fill the empty space where my Misty used to be but I'm unsure of when it's a good time to do so. Pye has always been surrounded by brothers & sisters all of his life, it's only recently he's been so alone. (his sisters had to move away with my old roommate)
I've increased his playtime and I try to give him extra attention but I know he's still wondering "where's everybody at?" He meows and looks all over the place for his playmates even now.
I know I could never ever replace Misty, he was unique and a dear member of the family for many many years. Do you think a month is too soon to adopt another kitty? Part of me thinks it would be better to adopt sooner rather than later, before Pyewackett gets used to being a loner. The other part of me feels a little guilty for bringing in a new cat so soon. I'm still grieving for Misty.
When is the right time to adopt? Should I wait a while longer or just do it? I had planned on visiting some shelters today to see if anyone there "picks" me. Any advice/suggestions would be helpful.