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Okay, I need advice, please! My wife and I have three cats - Crickett (about 9 yrs old), Kazi (about 3-4 yrs), and Sonar (just over 1 yr). Prior to adopting Sonar last year, Crickett and Kazi were perfect cats - always indoor, cuddly, self-sufficient, playful, happy with each other, and perfectly litter-box trained. They had the run of nearly the entire house together.
Since adopting Sonar last summer, things have changed drastically. As I'm not sure what to do with them now, and as I'm not sure what set everything off, I'll give more details here:
> We adopted Sonar as a kitten, and while Crickett and Kazi were stand-offish about her, nothing really changed.
> We discovered Sonar had ringworm and she began a regimen of frequent sulfur-lyme dips to take care of it.
> We took the other cats to the vet, but they were ringworm free.
> Sonar would spend the afternoon and night in a separate room with her own litter box while the smell dissipated a little, then rejoin the rest of the family.
> Somewhere around this time, Kazi began bullying Crickett. We thought they were just being tempermental because of the smell, and Crickett has always been one for staying out of sight until she wanted to cuddle.
> After the treatments ended, we noticed that Crickett stopped coming out at all. We found her hiding under the couch afraid to come out. She had lost some weight from not eating, so we moved her into our bedroom (with attached bathroom) with her own litter box and food/water. She has recovered quite well and enjoys her own little two room kingdom.
> Somewhere around the time we moved Crickett out, we began to notice that one of the cats was peeing on the baseboard in a back hallway. After some investigation, we discovered that it was Kazi.
> We've added a second litter box and put it in that hallway and removed the lid from the original litter box. This seemed to work temporarily.
> Sonar began exerting her own dominance (she is already larger than Kazi), and this has created more stress between them.
> Kazi returned to peeing on the baseboards (which I've had to remove due to damage), so I taped aluminum foil covered with baking soda in the areas she was peeing.
> She, this week, started peeing in new places (still baseboards, and right above the baseboards), so I moved her and the second litter box into a bathroom with her own food and water dish to try to "re-train" her to the litter box.
> However, after letting her out today (she HAD peed in the litter box), she peed on the baseboard within 30 minutes.
I'm at a loss. I don't know how to stop Kazi from peeing outside of the litter box, and I don't know how to bring balance to my felines again so that Crickett can rejoin the general population. I'm going to make an appointment for Kazi at the vet's office to see if she has some kind of urinary tract infection or anything, but since everything, to me, seems behavioral because of Sonar's introduction, Crickett's removal, and now Sonar's dominance, I feel like it may just be money wasted.
In short:
> One cat (Sonar - the 1-yr-old) is bullying another (Kazi - the 3-yr-old).
> Kazi is peeing on baseboards and won't stop.
> Crickett (the 9-yr-old) is isolated in our bedroom/master bath and doesn't want to come out (freaks out if I try to carry her out), and immediately runs to hide if the others are allowed in.
Any advice on how to get Sonar to be nicer to Kazi? To get Kazi to use the litter box consistently again (she does poop there)? To get Crickett safely among the other two again?
I'm okay with tough love, but I just need more ideas. I've had cats my whole life and never had this problem (but until I was 21, they were primarily outdoor cats unless having kittens).
THANKS!
Since adopting Sonar last summer, things have changed drastically. As I'm not sure what to do with them now, and as I'm not sure what set everything off, I'll give more details here:
> We adopted Sonar as a kitten, and while Crickett and Kazi were stand-offish about her, nothing really changed.
> We discovered Sonar had ringworm and she began a regimen of frequent sulfur-lyme dips to take care of it.
> We took the other cats to the vet, but they were ringworm free.
> Sonar would spend the afternoon and night in a separate room with her own litter box while the smell dissipated a little, then rejoin the rest of the family.
> Somewhere around this time, Kazi began bullying Crickett. We thought they were just being tempermental because of the smell, and Crickett has always been one for staying out of sight until she wanted to cuddle.
> After the treatments ended, we noticed that Crickett stopped coming out at all. We found her hiding under the couch afraid to come out. She had lost some weight from not eating, so we moved her into our bedroom (with attached bathroom) with her own litter box and food/water. She has recovered quite well and enjoys her own little two room kingdom.
> Somewhere around the time we moved Crickett out, we began to notice that one of the cats was peeing on the baseboard in a back hallway. After some investigation, we discovered that it was Kazi.
> We've added a second litter box and put it in that hallway and removed the lid from the original litter box. This seemed to work temporarily.
> Sonar began exerting her own dominance (she is already larger than Kazi), and this has created more stress between them.
> Kazi returned to peeing on the baseboards (which I've had to remove due to damage), so I taped aluminum foil covered with baking soda in the areas she was peeing.
> She, this week, started peeing in new places (still baseboards, and right above the baseboards), so I moved her and the second litter box into a bathroom with her own food and water dish to try to "re-train" her to the litter box.
> However, after letting her out today (she HAD peed in the litter box), she peed on the baseboard within 30 minutes.
I'm at a loss. I don't know how to stop Kazi from peeing outside of the litter box, and I don't know how to bring balance to my felines again so that Crickett can rejoin the general population. I'm going to make an appointment for Kazi at the vet's office to see if she has some kind of urinary tract infection or anything, but since everything, to me, seems behavioral because of Sonar's introduction, Crickett's removal, and now Sonar's dominance, I feel like it may just be money wasted.
In short:
> One cat (Sonar - the 1-yr-old) is bullying another (Kazi - the 3-yr-old).
> Kazi is peeing on baseboards and won't stop.
> Crickett (the 9-yr-old) is isolated in our bedroom/master bath and doesn't want to come out (freaks out if I try to carry her out), and immediately runs to hide if the others are allowed in.
Any advice on how to get Sonar to be nicer to Kazi? To get Kazi to use the litter box consistently again (she does poop there)? To get Crickett safely among the other two again?
I'm okay with tough love, but I just need more ideas. I've had cats my whole life and never had this problem (but until I was 21, they were primarily outdoor cats unless having kittens).
THANKS!