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Like so many before me ...one cat often leads to another. From what I've been reading, adding a second cat is usually a good thing. I just haven't made up my mind for sure ...there is a cat at a local shelter that I have my eye on. They are over run with cats (the norm I guess) and are putting them 'on sale' this month.
I got Malachy 3 months ago - he was caged with another cat who he was brought in with. His 'buddy' was adopted out before he was. Mal seems quite well adjusted to being an only cat ...he entertains himself quite nicely most times. He has been demonstrating more play aggression lately though ...not sure what that is about. He is 2 years old. I know a second cat would add to the financial burden ...but I think I could manage by making a few cut backs here & there.
I am gone most days for 8-9 hours and usually 2-3 nights week ...so I feel like he spends too much time alone. He is very affectionate and is always happy to see me. There is also a chance I might be moving in a few months back into my old house ...my partner & I are currently living separate but are very much a couple ...he is not a cat person at all. He is happy I have Malachy for a companion when I am home alone ...if I move back to the house, he will most likely be there several nights a week but not 'fulltime' ...I'm sure he would not be thrilled if I got a second cat but not sure it's up to him what I choose to do; although I should consider his view ...I am not entirely sure what I should do, and I am fighting to resist the 'urge' ...trying to be certain which choice is the best one.
Just looking for outside thoughts ...maybe from those who can see this from the outside looking in ...thanks in advance
I got Malachy 3 months ago - he was caged with another cat who he was brought in with. His 'buddy' was adopted out before he was. Mal seems quite well adjusted to being an only cat ...he entertains himself quite nicely most times. He has been demonstrating more play aggression lately though ...not sure what that is about. He is 2 years old. I know a second cat would add to the financial burden ...but I think I could manage by making a few cut backs here & there.
I am gone most days for 8-9 hours and usually 2-3 nights week ...so I feel like he spends too much time alone. He is very affectionate and is always happy to see me. There is also a chance I might be moving in a few months back into my old house ...my partner & I are currently living separate but are very much a couple ...he is not a cat person at all. He is happy I have Malachy for a companion when I am home alone ...if I move back to the house, he will most likely be there several nights a week but not 'fulltime' ...I'm sure he would not be thrilled if I got a second cat but not sure it's up to him what I choose to do; although I should consider his view ...I am not entirely sure what I should do, and I am fighting to resist the 'urge' ...trying to be certain which choice is the best one.
Just looking for outside thoughts ...maybe from those who can see this from the outside looking in ...thanks in advance
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