Hey everyone!
Recently Friend's been showing a lot of progress in his comfort-level with me, which melts my heart, so I thought it might be a neat idea if anyone wanted to share stories about the bonding process with their cats? Especially if one adopts from a shelter or rescue, the poor kitty can often have a lot of residual trust-issues and anxiety. And sometimes it can be hard to remember the moments where they've subtly said "I think I trust you a little more, hu-mon."
When I first adopted Friend, he was friendly, but preferred to spend most of his time under the bed. Eventually under-the-bed became curled-up-in-the-bathroom-sink (which is still his go-to hiding place and Generally Cool Spot), but over the past few months he's been curling up more and more on my desk when I'm on the computer, and boldly plopping himself on the keyboard, regardless of what I'm up to. He's started voluntarily crawling into my lap, and curling up behind me in my chair. He'll let me rest my cheek against his side and listen to him purr. He purrs A LOT.
I'll also never forget the first day that I came home from work and he greeted me not only with his little chirps and excessive head-rubs but by actually rolling around on the kitchen floor.
Finally, while he still doesn't sleep on my bed all night, and sometimes he's still at my feet, more and more often I'll go to bed or wake up with him curled up at my side (rear end facing my head, of course--but then he'll be caressing me with his tail, which I've read is a good thing).
Anyway . . . I'd love to hear your stories of your kitty coming to trust you and being more comfortable with themself and their new home.
Recently Friend's been showing a lot of progress in his comfort-level with me, which melts my heart, so I thought it might be a neat idea if anyone wanted to share stories about the bonding process with their cats? Especially if one adopts from a shelter or rescue, the poor kitty can often have a lot of residual trust-issues and anxiety. And sometimes it can be hard to remember the moments where they've subtly said "I think I trust you a little more, hu-mon."
When I first adopted Friend, he was friendly, but preferred to spend most of his time under the bed. Eventually under-the-bed became curled-up-in-the-bathroom-sink (which is still his go-to hiding place and Generally Cool Spot), but over the past few months he's been curling up more and more on my desk when I'm on the computer, and boldly plopping himself on the keyboard, regardless of what I'm up to. He's started voluntarily crawling into my lap, and curling up behind me in my chair. He'll let me rest my cheek against his side and listen to him purr. He purrs A LOT.
I'll also never forget the first day that I came home from work and he greeted me not only with his little chirps and excessive head-rubs but by actually rolling around on the kitchen floor.
Finally, while he still doesn't sleep on my bed all night, and sometimes he's still at my feet, more and more often I'll go to bed or wake up with him curled up at my side (rear end facing my head, of course--but then he'll be caressing me with his tail, which I've read is a good thing).
Anyway . . . I'd love to hear your stories of your kitty coming to trust you and being more comfortable with themself and their new home.