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My husband and I adopted a 12 week kitten about a month ago from our local Petsmart (to be a companion to our nearly year old calico). She is from a shelter and was turned in by a family whose cat had kittens and they ended up with too many kittens. I did a phone interview to adopt her, and the woman who runs the shelter informed me that her brothers and sisters and her were not socialized at all. Through "forced" holding, she said the kittens came around. Suzi (the name we gave her) was the only kitten left to be adopted, and I felt so sorry for her.
I wasn't too concerned at first about how scared she was of us. She hisses at us and generally runs away, but she doesn't bite or scratch us (she only scratches accidentally trying to jump down if we try to hold her, which I understand). She is completely in love with our other kitten, and our other kitten is completely fine with Suzi laying with her, playing with her, and following her around. We're very glad for that, since we wanted another kitten to be a companion for the older one.
But now, it's been a month, and Suzi is almost just as frightened of us. Every now and then, if Laufeia (the other kitten) is around or if she is eating, she will let us pet her. Most of the time, she is still running away and hissing. She hides a lot (we put a bell collar on her to at least hear where she is because she disappeared in the house one day), but she is getting better about roaming the whole house.
I can't say 100% what happened to Suzi, but in our area, we've heard a lot of news about animal abuse in groomers, vets, shelters. Two groomers and a vet office were shut down in just the last few months. We fear that Suzi may have been mistreated. We've tried giving her special treats, holding her, and giving her space. We are still too scary for her. She meows for our other kitten more than food or our attention.
Does anyone have any advice how we can work to gain Suzi's trust better? I don't like the idea of forcing her to be held, but I have a couple of times, and she sits pretty well for a little, meowing to be let go. I don't think that's the right approach at all, even if the shelter says the other kittens benefited from that. Laufeia loves everyone, even strangers. So this experience is night and day. I want her to be as comfortable as Laufeia is with us. I certainly wouldn't want to live in the house of frightening giants...
I wasn't too concerned at first about how scared she was of us. She hisses at us and generally runs away, but she doesn't bite or scratch us (she only scratches accidentally trying to jump down if we try to hold her, which I understand). She is completely in love with our other kitten, and our other kitten is completely fine with Suzi laying with her, playing with her, and following her around. We're very glad for that, since we wanted another kitten to be a companion for the older one.
But now, it's been a month, and Suzi is almost just as frightened of us. Every now and then, if Laufeia (the other kitten) is around or if she is eating, she will let us pet her. Most of the time, she is still running away and hissing. She hides a lot (we put a bell collar on her to at least hear where she is because she disappeared in the house one day), but she is getting better about roaming the whole house.
I can't say 100% what happened to Suzi, but in our area, we've heard a lot of news about animal abuse in groomers, vets, shelters. Two groomers and a vet office were shut down in just the last few months. We fear that Suzi may have been mistreated. We've tried giving her special treats, holding her, and giving her space. We are still too scary for her. She meows for our other kitten more than food or our attention.
Does anyone have any advice how we can work to gain Suzi's trust better? I don't like the idea of forcing her to be held, but I have a couple of times, and she sits pretty well for a little, meowing to be let go. I don't think that's the right approach at all, even if the shelter says the other kittens benefited from that. Laufeia loves everyone, even strangers. So this experience is night and day. I want her to be as comfortable as Laufeia is with us. I certainly wouldn't want to live in the house of frightening giants...