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This is not a new situation as the male is already 6-7 years old. They are both fixed. I rescued a mama and the one remaining son from the street. Well he grew up to be 3 pound+ heavier and bigger than mama. He was a terror as a juvenile and over the years, she is not comfortable being around him at all. He still chases her around the house and IF he can, will pin her down and bite her neck in dominance. They do go in and outside and that is how it has been tolerable. Mama sleeps in the garage - her choice. I can't leave them alone in the house because it is not fair to her. She had a bite on her tail but I have no way of knowing if he did that. Sometimes he just wants to go up and greet her but she is not trusting of him. I have to move into a small apartment and keep them inside. I just don't know how I can stop him. I have heard build the confidence of the smaller one but she is older and so much smaller. She is such a sweet kitty. Last time I saw him jump on her I picked him up and put him in a room to try to get the idea not to do that but I still work so I can't really repeat that enough. He basically thinks he owns the house. Yet he can be so sweet when he wants food or the lap. Any ideas?