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hi! my partner and i just got a new kitten jasper. he’s 2 months old and we’ve had him in the home for less than a week. he is a sweet but chaotic baby w kitten energy.
since he’s a kitten we are introducing him to our friends cuz who doesn’t love kittens and when we do this we say please don’t play with the kitten using ur hands as the toy or he’ll think ur hands are toys or play with him too aggressively because we don’t want him to think it’s ok. one of our friends didn’t listen and now he loves biting hands and plays quite rough now so yay.
my issue now is we have 3 other cats 3yrs(M) 1 1/2(F) and 11m(M). with our 11m old cat rudy he’s been quite playful w jasper through the door and is doing well w peeking in the door crack at jasper so we thought hey let’s let them meet for little in our room play for a bit, because rudy seems ready, and put jasper back in the bathroom when it becomes to much. we let jasper out and he is doing fine for about 5 seconds. he then proceeds to chase rudy (which is normal) but then when he gets to rudy he will latch on to rudy, bite down hard, and make these aggressive long meows w airplane ears when biting on rudy and back kicking his stomach. meanwhile rudy is hissing and trying to get jasper off of him and jasper seems to not listen nor care and keeps coming after rudy doing the same thing. we separated them and we tried again after a couple of hours but it was the same thing.
so my question is do we just let rudy and other cats (when their ready) teach jasper that’s not ok or can we step in and also teach jasper? we aren’t quite sure what to do because if we don’t let jasper socialize w the cats how will he learn to not do that but if we do socialize him he’ll get beat up and possibly a fight might break out. also see below the cutie patootie below
since he’s a kitten we are introducing him to our friends cuz who doesn’t love kittens and when we do this we say please don’t play with the kitten using ur hands as the toy or he’ll think ur hands are toys or play with him too aggressively because we don’t want him to think it’s ok. one of our friends didn’t listen and now he loves biting hands and plays quite rough now so yay.
my issue now is we have 3 other cats 3yrs(M) 1 1/2(F) and 11m(M). with our 11m old cat rudy he’s been quite playful w jasper through the door and is doing well w peeking in the door crack at jasper so we thought hey let’s let them meet for little in our room play for a bit, because rudy seems ready, and put jasper back in the bathroom when it becomes to much. we let jasper out and he is doing fine for about 5 seconds. he then proceeds to chase rudy (which is normal) but then when he gets to rudy he will latch on to rudy, bite down hard, and make these aggressive long meows w airplane ears when biting on rudy and back kicking his stomach. meanwhile rudy is hissing and trying to get jasper off of him and jasper seems to not listen nor care and keeps coming after rudy doing the same thing. we separated them and we tried again after a couple of hours but it was the same thing.
so my question is do we just let rudy and other cats (when their ready) teach jasper that’s not ok or can we step in and also teach jasper? we aren’t quite sure what to do because if we don’t let jasper socialize w the cats how will he learn to not do that but if we do socialize him he’ll get beat up and possibly a fight might break out. also see below the cutie patootie below
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