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Hello. About two years ago one of my cats died. She and my other cat had lived together for about ten years and were buds. I didn't really know the meaning of the word grief until she passed. After a while, late at night when I was laying in bed, my other cat started walking to empty rooms and she'd meow in a way that sounded like crying. Or like she was calling out for her buddy. I'd never heard her make that noise before and she's never made it around me to this day.
Anyways to try to get over my grief from my cat passing I started volunteering at a cat shelter helping to clean once a week. Right before the Covid lockdowns I signed up for the foster program and took in a diabetic foster cat;. She was kind of like my cat that passed in that she was kind of a runt but incredibly sweet and warm and cuddly and intelligent.
Anyways, After growing close to her (I've been home nearly all the time since we got pandemic'd) and her starting to get along with my other cat she passed. We were never really able to get her glucose level stabilized. It's devastating when you are responsible for making this sweet little innocent thing better again and you fail, Your mind just keeps going over things endlessly to try to figure out what you did wrong.
Anyways, while we had the diabetic foster cat my other cat stopped the empty room crying meow thing. Also, she had picked up doing a sort of anger meow thing at me that she stopped. She started doing it again after the foster passed. I had another foster recently. Beautiful, fun, playful, sweet ... great cat. She was only here for a week and my other cat kind of attacked her once but after that there were just some growls as I took action to try bring about a detente. I think they may have been starting to be accepting of one another the last day or two.
Anyways, after having that sweet foster for a week I took her back in and they kept her as now they said they have space for her in the adoption area. My cat done a bit of the empty room cry meow as well as the anger meow thing again.
I really liked her and I've thought about adopting her since I took her to the adoption center a day ago. I want to adopt her but I know I can give more cats a life by being a foster. Also, I want to do whatever makes my other cat happy and I can't tell . She could be adopted today at the adoption center and I don't know what to do. Thoughts or advice?
Sorry for the ridiculously long post. It's hard to write about this stuff
Anyways to try to get over my grief from my cat passing I started volunteering at a cat shelter helping to clean once a week. Right before the Covid lockdowns I signed up for the foster program and took in a diabetic foster cat;. She was kind of like my cat that passed in that she was kind of a runt but incredibly sweet and warm and cuddly and intelligent.
Anyways, After growing close to her (I've been home nearly all the time since we got pandemic'd) and her starting to get along with my other cat she passed. We were never really able to get her glucose level stabilized. It's devastating when you are responsible for making this sweet little innocent thing better again and you fail, Your mind just keeps going over things endlessly to try to figure out what you did wrong.
Anyways, while we had the diabetic foster cat my other cat stopped the empty room crying meow thing. Also, she had picked up doing a sort of anger meow thing at me that she stopped. She started doing it again after the foster passed. I had another foster recently. Beautiful, fun, playful, sweet ... great cat. She was only here for a week and my other cat kind of attacked her once but after that there were just some growls as I took action to try bring about a detente. I think they may have been starting to be accepting of one another the last day or two.
Anyways, after having that sweet foster for a week I took her back in and they kept her as now they said they have space for her in the adoption area. My cat done a bit of the empty room cry meow as well as the anger meow thing again.
I really liked her and I've thought about adopting her since I took her to the adoption center a day ago. I want to adopt her but I know I can give more cats a life by being a foster. Also, I want to do whatever makes my other cat happy and I can't tell . She could be adopted today at the adoption center and I don't know what to do. Thoughts or advice?
Sorry for the ridiculously long post. It's hard to write about this stuff