so, im in a band with another 2 guys, one of which is my brother who plays bass, (i sing and play guitar, and another guy drums) anyways, we were meant to be playing tonight and at the last minute my brother cancels!
claiming he was having some stuff delivered that evening for his house? at 9 on the night? he did the same last week and also missed a practice a week ago sunday.
the bottom line is, its his wife! i know he wants to play just as much as we do, but his missis is clearly putting the clamps on it! he has told me openly that she isnt happy about him playing as she gets really jealous of anyone who takes him away from her.
my brother barely sees our mum for the same reason, and his wife can just about tolerate dad. its ridiculous, she is such a sulky so and so!
so the problem is what do i do about the band, i thnk he will be upset by being replaced, but i cant change his wifes opinion so the only thing i can change is my band?? i couldnt imagine playing without him, its just not the same.
its such a shame as i have no problem with her, but she is really knocking a wedge into my family, and is making the band look unprofessional, what do you guys think? jez x
claiming he was having some stuff delivered that evening for his house? at 9 on the night? he did the same last week and also missed a practice a week ago sunday.
the bottom line is, its his wife! i know he wants to play just as much as we do, but his missis is clearly putting the clamps on it! he has told me openly that she isnt happy about him playing as she gets really jealous of anyone who takes him away from her.
my brother barely sees our mum for the same reason, and his wife can just about tolerate dad. its ridiculous, she is such a sulky so and so!
so the problem is what do i do about the band, i thnk he will be upset by being replaced, but i cant change his wifes opinion so the only thing i can change is my band?? i couldnt imagine playing without him, its just not the same.
its such a shame as i have no problem with her, but she is really knocking a wedge into my family, and is making the band look unprofessional, what do you guys think? jez x