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Just ugh.
The lady who I screened phone calls from Monday- has now called again. Four times. Left 1 message and 3 hang ups. Yes I was bad- she called, I answered the phone and hung up when it was her. Ugh.
What the heck do I do? I most certainly do NOT want to hear "Guess what- I got all A's in EVERYTHING- the highest grade in my class". It's gloating and it's obnoxious. Not to mention I don't know if it's true or not. See, when we were in a class together- after EVERY SINGLE test that's what she'd say. Then she failed one. And came clean about not doing well on any of the others. Then she failed the class.
So she could very well be truthful. But how do I know? I don't see her. It's kind of like an internet relationship- only I have to physically talk on the phone to her.
I just want truthfulness. I don't want to make someone else feel good at my expense. Because right now my life is a mess. The one thing that I can say is that I have a roof over my head, pretty good kids and a husband. And 2 very sweet kitties
Though I could do without Holly and some of her antics sometimes
I don't want to confront and say "Um- are you REALLY telling the truth"? Though that would probably stop the phone calls huh? Not to mention that after we have that part of the conversation- I never get asked "and how's things with you". Nope. It's all about her, her, her. I have 2 teenage girls who have that attitude. I don't want to sit on the phone and listen to an ADULT go on for an hour.
Cheryl
The lady who I screened phone calls from Monday- has now called again. Four times. Left 1 message and 3 hang ups. Yes I was bad- she called, I answered the phone and hung up when it was her. Ugh.
What the heck do I do? I most certainly do NOT want to hear "Guess what- I got all A's in EVERYTHING- the highest grade in my class". It's gloating and it's obnoxious. Not to mention I don't know if it's true or not. See, when we were in a class together- after EVERY SINGLE test that's what she'd say. Then she failed one. And came clean about not doing well on any of the others. Then she failed the class.
So she could very well be truthful. But how do I know? I don't see her. It's kind of like an internet relationship- only I have to physically talk on the phone to her.
I just want truthfulness. I don't want to make someone else feel good at my expense. Because right now my life is a mess. The one thing that I can say is that I have a roof over my head, pretty good kids and a husband. And 2 very sweet kitties
I don't want to confront and say "Um- are you REALLY telling the truth"? Though that would probably stop the phone calls huh? Not to mention that after we have that part of the conversation- I never get asked "and how's things with you". Nope. It's all about her, her, her. I have 2 teenage girls who have that attitude. I don't want to sit on the phone and listen to an ADULT go on for an hour.
Cheryl