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I lost one of my beloved furbabies, Daniel, on the 6th of this month - the thought still leaves me breathless with grief - and am now terrified that my other four furbabies are sick. Specifically, I am worried about Daniel's brother, Jack. I know that there is no definitive test that a vet can do, other than biopsies on tumors, to tell if a cat has cancer, but complications from that is what Daniel died from and I am so worried that Jack also has cancer.
Daniel was fine until he wasn't. There were no symptoms, at least no symptoms that I saw, until two weeks ago today I noticed he had two different sized pupils. The vet thought he had a lens luxation and I was freaking out about him going blind because I couldn't afford $3000-$3500 for the surgery to remove the lens. Five days after that I got the diagnosis that he had lung cancer (most likely metastatic) when I had x-rays done because I was worried he had pneumonia. Seven days later and he was gone. Now I think, if only blindness had been all he had to worry about.
Now his brother is making me worry.
Last night Jack was sneezing several times, his eyes a little runny. Normally this wouldn't concern me, because he's done it before and it usually lasts a day or so before it goes away but after having lost Daniel, everything feels like it's a bigger, scarier deal now.
Today I looked at his belly while petting him and his two lower nipples are a little crusty and dark. I couldn't see the others for comparison, as he hates being on his back and was so done putting up with me poking and prodding at him. I have been searching online for images to see if any match what I am seeing. I'm terrified that he has breast cancer. I do plan to take him to the vet, but am unable to this week because I do not drive, my father who has heart trouble is not allowed to drive this week (he was in the hospital when Daniel passed) and I have to go with him to a cardiologist appointment, but I plan to get Jack in as soon as it possible. At the moment though, I am full of anxiety over Daniel's loss, and the worry about Jack on top of that has me nearing panic levels of anxiety.
There are no lumps that I feel, just the crustiness over the nipples and what looks a little like a blackhead, that he would let me see.
Of course, the stuff I'm finding online has me freaking out even more.
Has anyone had any experience with this kind of thing?
Daniel was fine until he wasn't. There were no symptoms, at least no symptoms that I saw, until two weeks ago today I noticed he had two different sized pupils. The vet thought he had a lens luxation and I was freaking out about him going blind because I couldn't afford $3000-$3500 for the surgery to remove the lens. Five days after that I got the diagnosis that he had lung cancer (most likely metastatic) when I had x-rays done because I was worried he had pneumonia. Seven days later and he was gone. Now I think, if only blindness had been all he had to worry about.
Now his brother is making me worry.
Last night Jack was sneezing several times, his eyes a little runny. Normally this wouldn't concern me, because he's done it before and it usually lasts a day or so before it goes away but after having lost Daniel, everything feels like it's a bigger, scarier deal now.
Today I looked at his belly while petting him and his two lower nipples are a little crusty and dark. I couldn't see the others for comparison, as he hates being on his back and was so done putting up with me poking and prodding at him. I have been searching online for images to see if any match what I am seeing. I'm terrified that he has breast cancer. I do plan to take him to the vet, but am unable to this week because I do not drive, my father who has heart trouble is not allowed to drive this week (he was in the hospital when Daniel passed) and I have to go with him to a cardiologist appointment, but I plan to get Jack in as soon as it possible. At the moment though, I am full of anxiety over Daniel's loss, and the worry about Jack on top of that has me nearing panic levels of anxiety.
There are no lumps that I feel, just the crustiness over the nipples and what looks a little like a blackhead, that he would let me see.
Of course, the stuff I'm finding online has me freaking out even more.
Has anyone had any experience with this kind of thing?