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My sibling brother kittens about 5 months old are so different . They play and love each other. But one Arlo has always been super friendly and sweet / the other Finn is very shy and anxious . He was always the shy one but it’s lately worse and worse to the point you can barely look at him not to mention ever touching or picking him up . He spooks and won’t let us handle him : he will sometimes let me pet him when I feed him . He does let my older daughter pet and cuddle him when he’s confined to my room and it’s nap time . My toddler scares him a lot in general because of general noise level . My toddler NEVER handles him and isn’t allowed To chase or anything . But is generally just noisy and makes fast movements . Arlo doesn’t mind this at all . Finn does . It’s getting worse for him . I’m worried he’s not adjusting well . You’d think he would calm down and at least grow to tolerate her more not less .
I’m beginning to wonder if we are not the right fit for Finn . I hate to split them up and I won’t rehome Arlo . He’s the perfect cat for our home: my older cat even likes him . My older cat doesn’t like Finn . I think a quiet home with another kitten would be good for Finn but I worry if it would be hard for him . I am not sure if it’s worse growing up in a home where it’s always noisy and he’s on edge constantly and can’t be handled or being split up from his brother to live in a quieter peaceful home with another cat hopefully .
I’m beginning to wonder if we are not the right fit for Finn . I hate to split them up and I won’t rehome Arlo . He’s the perfect cat for our home: my older cat even likes him . My older cat doesn’t like Finn . I think a quiet home with another kitten would be good for Finn but I worry if it would be hard for him . I am not sure if it’s worse growing up in a home where it’s always noisy and he’s on edge constantly and can’t be handled or being split up from his brother to live in a quieter peaceful home with another cat hopefully .