Another suggestion - when he's "talking" to you - talk back - carry on a conversation with him - ask him how's his day, nite, etc. I know it sounds silly, but he just wants attention. Will he allow you to just pick him up and carry him around?
The suggestion of feeding first is a good one - when they have their heads in a bowl, you can get other things done.
The suggestion of feeding first is a good one - when they have their heads in a bowl, you can get other things done.