Severe and Unusual Bullying Problem

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Hi everyone! 

I have 3 cats, a tuxedo named Thomas who is about 7 mos., a Mau named Cleo that is one year old, and a calico/Siamese ragdoll named Jinx, who is around 8 years old, who I've had since I was in middle school. 

Jinx has behavioural problems of her own, but what I really need help with is Thomas and Cleo. (For the record, both are fixed.)

Cleo is a very strong, agile cat, especially for her relatively small size (she weighs half as much as Jinx), and can climb up doors and windows, and can jump 4ft vertically. What I'm trying to say is that she's the most 'wild' and athletic cat I've had. One thing about her that I love is that she adores people. She sleeps on me every night, and loves to be petted. She has never bitten anyone in the house, not even as play. She only plays with her toys, and loves to chase them around the house. She is the sweetest cat when she's around people, even strangers, and can always be found curled up next to someone.

Thomas is a little different. He's not as sleek and fast and Cleo, but still likes to play and run around the house, of course. He is okay with people, but he has a habit of using people's hands as chew toys - and he bites and scratches hard. He is slowly becoming more gentle, though. He's a very spoiled little fluff ball, honestly. He even gets escorted through the house in someone's arms. But we have a reason for that - he and Cleo CANNOT be in the same room. When we take Thomas upstairs at night, we have to carry him there. When he's in the front room, all the doors have to be latched, and one even has to be barricaded  because Cleo knows how to open that door. When Thomas goes upstairs for the night, the doors to that room also have to be at least latched (one has a hook-and-eye on it too) so she can't push them open. When Thomas is upstairs or in the front room Cleo can roam the house, but it's not uncommon for her to sit in front of the glass door and watch Thomas, with these huge eyes..it's actually a little weird. She also does this upstairs. But there is a reason we have to have this system.

Cleo hates Thomas. The very first time she saw him she went after him, and to this day she continues to wait for the opportunity to go after him. (This has been going on for months.) But here's the problem:

She is NOT 'playing' or 'roughhousing'. Cleo is practically a bobcat compared to him. She is much stronger and faster, and she knows how to use her claws. She lunges after him in the blink of an eye and she tears him up.  She rips his fur out - after any 'incidents' there is black fur from our little tux everywhere in huge tufts. She attacks him with her whole body to pin him down, he can't escape until someone breaks it up. Thomas will generally hide for a little bit afterwards. When he comes out, he has big patches of fur missing, and often in those areas there are very large and actually pretty deep gashes. One time his eye was swollen shut for a week, and another time Cleo knocked him back so hard that he fractured his pelvis. 

I do not understand this at all. Cleo does not act this way towards any other cat or person.  It makes no sense to me. As long as she isn't attacking Thomas (which happens maybe twice a month - we've become quite vigilant), she is the least aggressive being I've ever seen. Amazingly well behaved, and very loving. Again, she doesn't attack other cats, like Jinx, or my grandmother's cat, Andy. 

Please, someone help me. He was attacked again today. I don't know what to do. 
 
 
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Also, one more thing about Thomas - he chews the edges of blankets sometimes, and he really gets into it. It's pretty strange, but I'm sure there's a reason why.
 

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Were Thomas and Cleo adopted together?  If not, did they go through a proper introduction process?
 
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They weren't apdoted. And yes, I did go through all of the introduction techniques.

But it was a little difficult at first, because when we got Cleo (we had Thomas first, btw), she refused to go near anybody. She went down into the basement. That lasted for about 3 weeks. After that we would able to see her in different parts of the house, and the second we will later she was gone. It was really strange. Eventually she stopped playing and hide see with us, and now, as I said earlier, she adores people and wants to be around us. 

What do you think could cause that behaviour? Could she have come from a bad home or something?
 

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 Cleo hates Thomas. The very first time she saw him she went after him, and to this day she continues to wait for the opportunity to go after him. 
Was this after the introduction period?  If not, what happened after introduction?  Did they get along and gradually Cleo starting bullying Thomas?

In any case, you may need to separate and reintroduce.
 
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It was actually almost impossible to introduce those two. She would go after him then too. But the big fights, they started after the introduction. 

I have had them separated. They're separated at all times, actually. I'm just worried that it'll go as bad as the first one. Any attempt to reintroduce was pretty nasty. They just really, really, really don't like each other. It's very disheartening. But the vet did give me some meds that are supposed to help Cleo calm down. I dont' have it handy so I can't tell you the name, but it starts with an A, I think. I'm not very good at that kind of stuff.

Thanks for your replies!
 

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I don't know...this sounds worse than the typical "we don't like the new cat" stuff.

If Cleo is hurting the Thomas that bad......poor little guy must be terrified all time. Cleo may need to be the only cat in a household (or, no kitten household)

I volunteer at the local cat shelter, there are some cats that just do not like other cats! We give the cats at the shelter time outside of their cages (not all at once of course  :)  ) Some of them don't get the opportunity because they charge at the cats in the cages, and I imagine they'd do some damage if given the chance!
 

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She sounds like she would be better as an only cat I know you say she is fine with Jinx and your grandma's cat Andy was it?  But by the sounds of it there is something about Thomas that gets her fur up. Is she mainly doing this is Thomas is being shown extra attention (because hes being attacked so much). Could be she is jealous of the poor boy because he is getting your attention because shes picking on him and shes doing the negative all the more because negative attention after all is still attention. I'd try feliway diffusers as i have heard really good things about this and do scent swaps to get them used to each others scents. Also try feeding them together at a glass door or a door where there's a gap under so they can smell each other. The positive affirmation of food mixed with each others scent may help to calm things down.
 
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