So I currently am living at home with my mother and twin sister. I have Jinx and Java, my two kitties, and a very loving and quiet-mannered Miniature Pinscher called Zeke also residing there. So the house is never really lonely, and the animals get a ton of affection and playtime with humans and animals like. On my weekends, I drive up north (about 100 miles away) to spend time with my boyfriend, since we have a long-distance relationship and see each other when possible.
When I leave, Jinx (who will be two in April) seems to have a meltdown. Yowling, frantically pacing, launching herself about the house all hours of night and day. At first I thought it could be heat, but this behavior immediately stops as soon as I return. (Not raised hindquarters, no wanting to roam, no yowling. Her spay surgery is scheduled next week anyway) My sister texts me within hours of my departure telling me that Jinx is having a meltdown, and doesn't want anyone touching her. She won't bite, scratch or otherwise be aggressive at all, but she'll make a slight spit and run from anyone who so much as looks as her. I know I'm Jinx's human, but her pickiness towards my sister and mom only seems to be getting worse. She loves the other kitten, Java, and they wrestle and play all the time... but not when I leave.
I'd love to take her up with me, the problem being is that my boyfriend's roommate has a dog that would surely kill her. I would never risk it that, on top of the fact that I believe Jinx would be incredibly stressed by the drive and new surrounding every week. I love my kitty but I also love my boyfriend -- weekends are spent up there, no questions asked, but I'm beginning to feel guilty because my cat doesn't seem to function when I leave. It's getting the point where she won't touch her food if I'm not around. When I come back, she jumps on my shoulder and pastes herself to me for the next 48 hours.
I love my boyfriend, and my cat. But I'm starting to feel guilty that this seems to take such a toll on her, as well as my family who put up with her screeching and antics when I leave. My question is are there any ways I can cope with what I assume is separation anxiety? Is this something else? Help is appreciated.
When I leave, Jinx (who will be two in April) seems to have a meltdown. Yowling, frantically pacing, launching herself about the house all hours of night and day. At first I thought it could be heat, but this behavior immediately stops as soon as I return. (Not raised hindquarters, no wanting to roam, no yowling. Her spay surgery is scheduled next week anyway) My sister texts me within hours of my departure telling me that Jinx is having a meltdown, and doesn't want anyone touching her. She won't bite, scratch or otherwise be aggressive at all, but she'll make a slight spit and run from anyone who so much as looks as her. I know I'm Jinx's human, but her pickiness towards my sister and mom only seems to be getting worse. She loves the other kitten, Java, and they wrestle and play all the time... but not when I leave.
I'd love to take her up with me, the problem being is that my boyfriend's roommate has a dog that would surely kill her. I would never risk it that, on top of the fact that I believe Jinx would be incredibly stressed by the drive and new surrounding every week. I love my kitty but I also love my boyfriend -- weekends are spent up there, no questions asked, but I'm beginning to feel guilty because my cat doesn't seem to function when I leave. It's getting the point where she won't touch her food if I'm not around. When I come back, she jumps on my shoulder and pastes herself to me for the next 48 hours.
I love my boyfriend, and my cat. But I'm starting to feel guilty that this seems to take such a toll on her, as well as my family who put up with her screeching and antics when I leave. My question is are there any ways I can cope with what I assume is separation anxiety? Is this something else? Help is appreciated.