hi!
I have two cats...LW is the boy, aged around 6, and a girl cat (LH) who is 7. Both have been fixed at an early age.
I had LW for almost a year before getting LH. LH was a street cat, but very affectionate towards me. LW was rescued as a tiny baby. LW is a pretty confident cat...very social (except at the vet).
LW tends to bully her...it’s like he doesn’t get the difference between play and mean (he didn’t have any litter mates or a momma cat). LH is much smaller, and I swear sometimes she seems to almost goad him. Like, he bites her and tries to pin her down, she hisses and screams, we rattle a can of pennies or whatever and he leaves her alone...then she will sometimes trot after him and then it starts over
Anyway, this all got worse lately when they stayed with my in laws. They were totally fine there—it’s much bigger with stairs and many hiding spots. We ended up bringing LW home first because he had a vet appointment and he has to be sedated for it. I thought it would be easier to just have him for a couple of days. But now he is meaner than ever to her.
Would it make sense to take them back to my in-laws for a little while and then maybe reintroduce them at our home? Can we “reset” them somehow?
I have two cats...LW is the boy, aged around 6, and a girl cat (LH) who is 7. Both have been fixed at an early age.
I had LW for almost a year before getting LH. LH was a street cat, but very affectionate towards me. LW was rescued as a tiny baby. LW is a pretty confident cat...very social (except at the vet).
LW tends to bully her...it’s like he doesn’t get the difference between play and mean (he didn’t have any litter mates or a momma cat). LH is much smaller, and I swear sometimes she seems to almost goad him. Like, he bites her and tries to pin her down, she hisses and screams, we rattle a can of pennies or whatever and he leaves her alone...then she will sometimes trot after him and then it starts over
Anyway, this all got worse lately when they stayed with my in laws. They were totally fine there—it’s much bigger with stairs and many hiding spots. We ended up bringing LW home first because he had a vet appointment and he has to be sedated for it. I thought it would be easier to just have him for a couple of days. But now he is meaner than ever to her.
Would it make sense to take them back to my in-laws for a little while and then maybe reintroduce them at our home? Can we “reset” them somehow?