Hello fellow cat lovers! I need some advice on bringing in a new cat into my home.
I currently have a 4 year old Siamese cat that I acquired as a kitten. When I got the cat I was living with my husband and he works from home so he would be home all day with her. Which was great because I travel for work (airline F/A).
Just recently we separated and are now going through a divorce. I got the cat because I'm the one who really wanted it in the first place. Now I live alone and when I have to go on a trip the cat is home alone and I feel terrible! I think she's bored and needs playtime. She wants to play a lot when I get home and a lot of times I'm just too tired.
So anyway, my thought was to get her a playmate. My fear is that she will get angry about it though and her personality will change or something. She is totally an indoor cat and doesn't even know other cats exist. I don't want her to be traumatized if a new cat suddenly joins us. And I don't want to go away worrying that they may fight or something (my cat is a biter unfortunately).
Is this a good idea? If so, would it be better to get a male or female (my cat is spayed), a cat or kitten? Same breed? How should the new cat be introduced so that it is a smooth transition?
Thanks in advance to anyone with advice on this.
I currently have a 4 year old Siamese cat that I acquired as a kitten. When I got the cat I was living with my husband and he works from home so he would be home all day with her. Which was great because I travel for work (airline F/A).
Just recently we separated and are now going through a divorce. I got the cat because I'm the one who really wanted it in the first place. Now I live alone and when I have to go on a trip the cat is home alone and I feel terrible! I think she's bored and needs playtime. She wants to play a lot when I get home and a lot of times I'm just too tired.
So anyway, my thought was to get her a playmate. My fear is that she will get angry about it though and her personality will change or something. She is totally an indoor cat and doesn't even know other cats exist. I don't want her to be traumatized if a new cat suddenly joins us. And I don't want to go away worrying that they may fight or something (my cat is a biter unfortunately).
Is this a good idea? If so, would it be better to get a male or female (my cat is spayed), a cat or kitten? Same breed? How should the new cat be introduced so that it is a smooth transition?
Thanks in advance to anyone with advice on this.