We have two cats: Mostly Feral, as shy as she sounds, and Drama, a laid back, but vocal male. This August, a pregnant stray showed up. We didn't want to start a feral colony, so we housed mama in the spare room until she had her babies, all four of which we found homes for.
She is at the vet being spayed today. Here is my worry. She has been brutally aggressive to our two cats. We thought once the kittens were gone, she might calm down, but she hasn't. She can sort of tolerate our male, but I caught her yesterday preparing to attack him while he slept -- back arched, fur on end, ears back. It takes no provocation. She attacks our female still on sight and these are not squabbles, she is deadly serious.
Is there any hope that after her spay, she might come around?
I am attached to her, she is the sweetest cat to humans and has zero aggression toward people. She is good with children and never minded total strangers handling her kitties.
But she is stressing me out to the point I can't relax in my own home. She is either out and the other two are shut up and begging to be out or she is locked in her room and trying to get out. We even have to lock the bedroom door from the inside because she can open it. (We have to pick the lock to feed her.)
Exhausting!
I might be just venting, but any advice would be great. I ordered a Feliway diffuser that should arrive tomorrow.
Another problem is that Drama can forgive anyone anything and would be fine if Mama would, but Mostly Feral absolutely hates and fears her now, so it isn't just a matter of Mama coming around, it is Mostly ever getting over her several beat downs.
She is at the vet being spayed today. Here is my worry. She has been brutally aggressive to our two cats. We thought once the kittens were gone, she might calm down, but she hasn't. She can sort of tolerate our male, but I caught her yesterday preparing to attack him while he slept -- back arched, fur on end, ears back. It takes no provocation. She attacks our female still on sight and these are not squabbles, she is deadly serious.
Is there any hope that after her spay, she might come around?
I am attached to her, she is the sweetest cat to humans and has zero aggression toward people. She is good with children and never minded total strangers handling her kitties.
But she is stressing me out to the point I can't relax in my own home. She is either out and the other two are shut up and begging to be out or she is locked in her room and trying to get out. We even have to lock the bedroom door from the inside because she can open it. (We have to pick the lock to feed her.)
Exhausting!
I might be just venting, but any advice would be great. I ordered a Feliway diffuser that should arrive tomorrow.
Another problem is that Drama can forgive anyone anything and would be fine if Mama would, but Mostly Feral absolutely hates and fears her now, so it isn't just a matter of Mama coming around, it is Mostly ever getting over her several beat downs.