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Hello! I'm brand new here, my friend Juleska recommended I join, because I just adopted a 9 month old stray from a local shelter and am working on integrating her into our home. I have 2 cats already, both outdoor, one of which is exclusively outdoor (his choice) and 2 kids.
So far I've established a "base camp," which is the closet in my bedroom, and since I brought her home 2 days ago (almost exactly 48 hours as I write this) she hasn't left the closet at all. She eats at night when I'm sleeping, she's been using the litterbox appropriately, but she's SO shy and timid, she hasn't been showing any interest in venturing out during the day at all. I've been doing my best to leave her alone, I go in there about once an hour and give her a finger to sniff, which she does. She let me rub her chin once but otherwise I can't get any closer. I've been doing that "slow blink" thing and one time she closed her eyes for me.
Anyway, I welcome any advice anybody has. I know that patience is the key and I also know that I totally lack it right now, so this is a challenge for me. Also I've never done anything like this before so I feel really out of my element, which is why my friend suggested I join here, so I can have one place to gather your suggestions, have something to refer back to, and also chart progress.
Thanks!
So far I've established a "base camp," which is the closet in my bedroom, and since I brought her home 2 days ago (almost exactly 48 hours as I write this) she hasn't left the closet at all. She eats at night when I'm sleeping, she's been using the litterbox appropriately, but she's SO shy and timid, she hasn't been showing any interest in venturing out during the day at all. I've been doing my best to leave her alone, I go in there about once an hour and give her a finger to sniff, which she does. She let me rub her chin once but otherwise I can't get any closer. I've been doing that "slow blink" thing and one time she closed her eyes for me.
Anyway, I welcome any advice anybody has. I know that patience is the key and I also know that I totally lack it right now, so this is a challenge for me. Also I've never done anything like this before so I feel really out of my element, which is why my friend suggested I join here, so I can have one place to gather your suggestions, have something to refer back to, and also chart progress.
Thanks!