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Hi,
So I have a 1 and a half year old Maine Coon boy that is very playful, gentle and well behaved. Because of his personality he gets very lonely and is in desperate need of a friend / playmate.
As such we decided to adopt another Maine Coon kitten from the same breeder for him to hopefully get along with. She is currently 17 weeks old. Same as Baron she is very well socialized and has been around other kittens, adults and even dogs since birth before we adopted her.
Now there were zero issues with introduction as our boy (Baron) showed no aggressive and only curiosity. We still keep him and the new girl (Nessie) separate for a few days and did slow introductions, smell swap etc.
They both roam the house now no bother at all and will touch noses and show no aggressive behaviour. However that all changes when it comes to play. Baron wants nothing more than to play with Nessie and he desperately tries to get her to engage in chasing, or light paffing. He is very gentle. But Nessie is simply terrified of him. She will immediately go into defence mode, ears back, growling and hissing and often backs herself into a corner which doesn't help things. We separate them when this happens but it just repeats again later in the day.
This has been going on for awhile now with no improvement. Its really depressing poor Baron and I can see Nessie becoming more skittish in general. She has even started to back away from him in casual settings and growl if he gets too close. Baron will just sit in the room watching and waiting for her to come play with him but she never will.
I so want them to be friends but I don't know if it's possible at this rate. Am I doing something wrong? Or are their personalities just at odds to each other?
Its been two weeks so I know it's early days but we are all out of ideas about what to do? Is there any hope of fixing this or is it just not going to work.
If its just going to make them both unhappy I would rather she went to a home where she could be more comfortable even though it breaks my heart to do so.
Any advice you could give me would be amazing as we are getting really upset here and don't know what to do.
So I have a 1 and a half year old Maine Coon boy that is very playful, gentle and well behaved. Because of his personality he gets very lonely and is in desperate need of a friend / playmate.
As such we decided to adopt another Maine Coon kitten from the same breeder for him to hopefully get along with. She is currently 17 weeks old. Same as Baron she is very well socialized and has been around other kittens, adults and even dogs since birth before we adopted her.
Now there were zero issues with introduction as our boy (Baron) showed no aggressive and only curiosity. We still keep him and the new girl (Nessie) separate for a few days and did slow introductions, smell swap etc.
They both roam the house now no bother at all and will touch noses and show no aggressive behaviour. However that all changes when it comes to play. Baron wants nothing more than to play with Nessie and he desperately tries to get her to engage in chasing, or light paffing. He is very gentle. But Nessie is simply terrified of him. She will immediately go into defence mode, ears back, growling and hissing and often backs herself into a corner which doesn't help things. We separate them when this happens but it just repeats again later in the day.
This has been going on for awhile now with no improvement. Its really depressing poor Baron and I can see Nessie becoming more skittish in general. She has even started to back away from him in casual settings and growl if he gets too close. Baron will just sit in the room watching and waiting for her to come play with him but she never will.
I so want them to be friends but I don't know if it's possible at this rate. Am I doing something wrong? Or are their personalities just at odds to each other?
Its been two weeks so I know it's early days but we are all out of ideas about what to do? Is there any hope of fixing this or is it just not going to work.
If its just going to make them both unhappy I would rather she went to a home where she could be more comfortable even though it breaks my heart to do so.
Any advice you could give me would be amazing as we are getting really upset here and don't know what to do.