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Hi everyone!
In a previous post months ago, I consulted about my boy, River, that I had adopted from a rescue as a companion for my lil' Panther. They both bonded really soon and before a week they were playing, and sharing everything from bowls to litter boxes. On another recent post I also commented about this poor stray boy who chose us to be his family, so we brought him inside the house and had him tested, vaccinated, and neutered. That was just this week!
My girl, lil' Panther has taken him in with no problem, she showed more resistance when I first brought River in, but with this one even when he's separated in another room, she's been very curious about him and likes to go with me when I go check him out in the room.
The problem now is, my boy River hasn't taken the idea of having another male cat sibling very happily. I'm doing the transition exchanging blankets between them and brushing them with the same brush. That has had some improvement, River now doesn't hiss at the blankets or the brush when they smell like "the intruder", but when he gets close to the room where the other cat is he hisses, growls, and his tail turns in angry mode.
He has come a long way with us, at first he was scared of everyone and everything, after 10 months he's more outgoing and trusting on us, but this new cat situation has set him back. I see him sad and he has backed away from us. He is such a sweet boy who loves to be treated as a baby but this situation has really affected him.
How can I reinforce his trust on us and the fact that our love for him will never change, and how can I make the transition smoother so he finally accepts the new boy in?
Also, River and Panther are around the same age, I adopted them at 8 and 7 months respectively and this new one is around 9-12 months, if that has anything to do? or the fact that is a male?
Should I pay River more attention now than usual?
In a previous post months ago, I consulted about my boy, River, that I had adopted from a rescue as a companion for my lil' Panther. They both bonded really soon and before a week they were playing, and sharing everything from bowls to litter boxes. On another recent post I also commented about this poor stray boy who chose us to be his family, so we brought him inside the house and had him tested, vaccinated, and neutered. That was just this week!
My girl, lil' Panther has taken him in with no problem, she showed more resistance when I first brought River in, but with this one even when he's separated in another room, she's been very curious about him and likes to go with me when I go check him out in the room.
The problem now is, my boy River hasn't taken the idea of having another male cat sibling very happily. I'm doing the transition exchanging blankets between them and brushing them with the same brush. That has had some improvement, River now doesn't hiss at the blankets or the brush when they smell like "the intruder", but when he gets close to the room where the other cat is he hisses, growls, and his tail turns in angry mode.
He has come a long way with us, at first he was scared of everyone and everything, after 10 months he's more outgoing and trusting on us, but this new cat situation has set him back. I see him sad and he has backed away from us. He is such a sweet boy who loves to be treated as a baby but this situation has really affected him.
How can I reinforce his trust on us and the fact that our love for him will never change, and how can I make the transition smoother so he finally accepts the new boy in?
Also, River and Panther are around the same age, I adopted them at 8 and 7 months respectively and this new one is around 9-12 months, if that has anything to do? or the fact that is a male?
Should I pay River more attention now than usual?