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Hello fellow cat lovers,
As of yesterday, we are dealing with a case of redirected or misdirected aggression. I know it’s not been long at all, but it is the most severe case we have personally dealt with. I’m very prone to anxiety and worst case scenario thinking so I’m hoping just getting my thoughts down and maybe hearing from others will help.
Yesterday my mom noticed her cat was having trouble urinating, only a drop would come out. At the same time, she was having a health situation with a family member and needed to deal with that so we offered to take her cat to the emergency vet. He’s going to be fine, but since my mom had a lot on her plate, we offered to bring Nielsen to our home to recover in our guest bedroom where we could really watch how he was urinating and administer his medication.
We have three cats, Penny the mama, and her children Fizzbin and Chloe. Early in the day everyone seemed fine, they would go to the guest door, there was mild hissing on both sides, but nothing major. All my cats ate lunch together, dinner together, everything was fine. In the evening I went to check on Nielsen and suddenly Penny just snapped. She attacked Fizzbin and let out the most horrible sound that can only be described as a scream and then ran upstairs. Fizzbin was okay, it appears she mainly just jumped him and then ran. We locked her in our bedroom and bathroom area upstairs. I have never seen her like this, she was completely unhinged. I went in to try and calm her, give some treats. I thought she would calm down more quickly like previous times where she saw another cat out the window. I realize now it was the wrong approach, I should have left her completely alone to calm down, but thankfully nothing really happened. She just sat there in a psychotic state. In the meantime, we brought Nielsen back to my mother, realizing we wouldn’t be able to keep him at our home.
Our next mistake was a few hours later, thinking she would have calmed down like previous times. We opened the door and she cautiously came out, but when she caught sight of her children, she made that horrible scream again and ran back to the bedroom. Thankfully this time she didn’t come after her children. Now we know we are dealing with something on another level, we won’t be opening the door again.
This morning she is still the same, hissing, growling, she didn’t use her litter box all night but she did eat her breakfast. The kittens are definitely disturbed ( they are 2 1/2 but we will always refer to them as the kittens) but they are eating, using the litter box, playing a little, but always lurking by the door where Penny is and just generally unsettled. I pushed a towel into the space under the door so they won’t agitate her by putting their paws underneath.
I’ve been reading online about the steps we need to take and I have Jackson Galaxy’s Total Cat Mojo so I will be reading that section today. I’m just worried maybe too much damage has happened because I tried calming her before she was ready, we opened the door too soon last night. I’m trying hard to act normal so as to diffuse the tension in the house but I’m always on the verge of tears. I just keep seeing the three of them sleeping together in a cat pile, grooming each other, they were so close. Especially Chloe and Penny. Its just so sad.
As of yesterday, we are dealing with a case of redirected or misdirected aggression. I know it’s not been long at all, but it is the most severe case we have personally dealt with. I’m very prone to anxiety and worst case scenario thinking so I’m hoping just getting my thoughts down and maybe hearing from others will help.
Yesterday my mom noticed her cat was having trouble urinating, only a drop would come out. At the same time, she was having a health situation with a family member and needed to deal with that so we offered to take her cat to the emergency vet. He’s going to be fine, but since my mom had a lot on her plate, we offered to bring Nielsen to our home to recover in our guest bedroom where we could really watch how he was urinating and administer his medication.
We have three cats, Penny the mama, and her children Fizzbin and Chloe. Early in the day everyone seemed fine, they would go to the guest door, there was mild hissing on both sides, but nothing major. All my cats ate lunch together, dinner together, everything was fine. In the evening I went to check on Nielsen and suddenly Penny just snapped. She attacked Fizzbin and let out the most horrible sound that can only be described as a scream and then ran upstairs. Fizzbin was okay, it appears she mainly just jumped him and then ran. We locked her in our bedroom and bathroom area upstairs. I have never seen her like this, she was completely unhinged. I went in to try and calm her, give some treats. I thought she would calm down more quickly like previous times where she saw another cat out the window. I realize now it was the wrong approach, I should have left her completely alone to calm down, but thankfully nothing really happened. She just sat there in a psychotic state. In the meantime, we brought Nielsen back to my mother, realizing we wouldn’t be able to keep him at our home.
Our next mistake was a few hours later, thinking she would have calmed down like previous times. We opened the door and she cautiously came out, but when she caught sight of her children, she made that horrible scream again and ran back to the bedroom. Thankfully this time she didn’t come after her children. Now we know we are dealing with something on another level, we won’t be opening the door again.
This morning she is still the same, hissing, growling, she didn’t use her litter box all night but she did eat her breakfast. The kittens are definitely disturbed ( they are 2 1/2 but we will always refer to them as the kittens) but they are eating, using the litter box, playing a little, but always lurking by the door where Penny is and just generally unsettled. I pushed a towel into the space under the door so they won’t agitate her by putting their paws underneath.
I’ve been reading online about the steps we need to take and I have Jackson Galaxy’s Total Cat Mojo so I will be reading that section today. I’m just worried maybe too much damage has happened because I tried calming her before she was ready, we opened the door too soon last night. I’m trying hard to act normal so as to diffuse the tension in the house but I’m always on the verge of tears. I just keep seeing the three of them sleeping together in a cat pile, grooming each other, they were so close. Especially Chloe and Penny. Its just so sad.