I want to start by saying, my cat didn't actually lose her siblings, but she doesn't know that. I adopted 3 cats while living in China, but because of Chinese regulations I can only take one cat out at a time. I took the first cat out in February and I took the second on April 1st. The final kitty and I will move on June 30th and be reunited with her siblings, but in the meantime, she is not dealing with the loss very well. I'm spending as much time at home with her as I can (basically every moment outside of work), I've got feliway plugged into the bedroom and I've been trying to play with her 30 minutes every night, but she still seems really unhappy. Some days she'll meow allllllll day long, other days she'll be quiet but keep her distance from me, preferring to stay alone. Sometimes, she's not even interested in our play sessions (and she's 11 months old, so that's not like her!) I just feel like nothing I do really helps her.
So while technically the other cats didn't die and she will see them again, since she doesn't know that, she's grieving their loss. My boy, Shade, grieved some after I took the first, but he still had Ever here to distract and comfort him. When he got to America he was ecstatic to find Promise alive and according to my mom, he's been on cloud nine ever since. So I know Ever will be fine in the long run, but I wish I could do something to make this time easier for her. Any suggestions?
So while technically the other cats didn't die and she will see them again, since she doesn't know that, she's grieving their loss. My boy, Shade, grieved some after I took the first, but he still had Ever here to distract and comfort him. When he got to America he was ecstatic to find Promise alive and according to my mom, he's been on cloud nine ever since. So I know Ever will be fine in the long run, but I wish I could do something to make this time easier for her. Any suggestions?