Our foster cat Pumpkin is in her first heat. She doesn't get spayed until Dec. 7. She is driving us and the rest of the cats crazy. I've been keeping her inside the bathroom and she sits in there and literally for hours howl and carry on. When I first got her she stayed in the bathroom and was very good. When I let her out, she gets into the "position" and when I pick her up she trys to get into position while I'm holding her. I have an un-neutered male cat who is too young to be fixed and he doesn't understand whats wrong with her and thinks she is playing, but that only encourages her more. Is there anything I can do to chill her out in the meantime?? I don't want to scold her because she can't help whats going on.