hello all, I need help, encouragement and understanding. A distant neighbor has moved and left behind 5 cats! (can't prove it was them, but another neighbor said it was)
I am sooo upset. The female that chose my front porch appears to be pregnant. I can't keep her, husband says two is the limit and he is allergic. They are outdoors, (please, they have heated enclosed beds, so please, I can't take a lecture right now) My goal is to keep them til they expire of old age and not get anymore. Now a third, pregnant cat is here.
Here's my problem, husband says absolutely not are we keeping her. But she is so lovable and gentle. He reminds me of how he has to blow the cat hair off the porch with the leaf blower in the warm months just so he can sit out there without having an attack.
I am so
I'm having anxiety attacks over this too. She is so sweet you guys.
nobody around here will take her, all of the no kills are full. I can't even find a foster home for her. My only alternative, which I hate, is to take her to the county shelter. And I KNOW what will happen to her then. This is killing me inside.
And guess what? I'll probably have to do it four more times cause some freakin morons left their cats!!! I'm so mad and sad that I'm shaking and I can't hardly catch my breath.
please- I need some comforting words...please help me not feel so lousy about this.
I am sooo upset. The female that chose my front porch appears to be pregnant. I can't keep her, husband says two is the limit and he is allergic. They are outdoors, (please, they have heated enclosed beds, so please, I can't take a lecture right now) My goal is to keep them til they expire of old age and not get anymore. Now a third, pregnant cat is here.
Here's my problem, husband says absolutely not are we keeping her. But she is so lovable and gentle. He reminds me of how he has to blow the cat hair off the porch with the leaf blower in the warm months just so he can sit out there without having an attack.
I am so
I'm having anxiety attacks over this too. She is so sweet you guys.
nobody around here will take her, all of the no kills are full. I can't even find a foster home for her. My only alternative, which I hate, is to take her to the county shelter. And I KNOW what will happen to her then. This is killing me inside.
And guess what? I'll probably have to do it four more times cause some freakin morons left their cats!!! I'm so mad and sad that I'm shaking and I can't hardly catch my breath.
please- I need some comforting words...please help me not feel so lousy about this.